Appearing on sites like chaturbate

[chicagoil]

I'm curious what motivates any guy, but especially straight guys, to show their cocks, jerk off, appear completely nude (show face and be completely unclothed) or all of the above on sites like chaturbate (or any other site where you are broadcasting yourself live).

I can understand the visual aspect - how many men like myself are turned on when they see something sexual (hence looking at porn). I can also understand, stemming from that, that being seen - providing someone else with the visual stimulation - can be a turn-on. But are there other aspects, other things that motivate or turn a guy on from showing his cock to strangers and publicly in a legal way on sites like these? Is it the taboo aspect of it - the danger of doing something forbidden, letting someone see something that is usually off-limits to most people? I'm interested in the psychological aspects of this.

 

[chicagoil]

I'm also intrigued by this aspect of appearing on these sites: The guys who show their cock and do all sorts of things with it but who never show their face. I understand in these cases that there's some protection desired - a reason not to reveal their identity to protect their reputation (at work or with family) or, presumably out of embarrassment, not to be seen naked by people who know them. But there's still a desire to show and share something intimate about themselves in this way if not their face. I'm curious why this is the case for guys who are like this.

 

[dopeboyfresh]

I'm on that site and have quite a lot of followers. I don't show my face but only my cock, chest down. It's so I can stay totally private. As far as the reason to be on the site... you've heard of exhibitionists, well it's like that. It's somewhere you can show your cock when it's fully hard. People can watch and comment. I get quite a lot of viewers for a man on there. I get men, women, trans, couples watching and chatting. It's a turn on to turn people on. It helps if you have a cock people want to see.

 

[AussieScooter]

As a predominantly straight guy that posts pics of my cock regularly on this site, it’s all of the above that motivates me.... I like the taboo feeling of sharing my intimate areas that no one irl gets to see :-( and then I also get really turned on by amazing comments of admiration and encouragement from guys that find my parts attractive. It’s admiration I don’t get irl so I’m seeking an outlet.
It’s the same reason I’d get into chaturbate.... I get so hard at the thought of others drooling over me!

 

[longstroke7]

Exhibitionism. Back in the 00s I used to post jerk off videos to a site called Rude.com (with my face obscured). It was fun.

 

[wilsonthevolleyball]

I have always been an exhibitionist and post on some camsites but never show face. I've had a many as 50 people watch me masturbate. I used to cam on CB but now you have to be verified. I won't tie my real name to my username in case the files got hacked and posted.

 

[AussieScooter]

I have always been an exhibitionist and post on some camsites but never show face. I've had a many as 50 people watch me masturbate. I used to cam on CB but now you have to be verified. I won't tie my real name to my username in case the files got hacked and posted.

Have you found an alternative site that allows you to post live streams without verification? If so, can you share with me because I too would use that site.

 

[mike0224x]

I'm curious what motivates any guy, but especially straight guys, to show their cocks, jerk off, appear completely nude (show face and be completely unclothed) or all of the above on sites like chaturbate (or any other site where you are broadcasting yourself live).

I can understand the visual aspect - how many men like myself are turned on when they see something sexual (hence looking at porn). I can also understand, stemming from that, that being seen - providing someone else with the visual stimulation - can be a turn-on. But are there other aspects, other things that motivate or turn a guy on from showing his cock to strangers and publicly in a legal way on sites like these? Is it the taboo aspect of it - the danger of doing something forbidden, letting someone see something that is usually off-limits to most people? I'm interested in the psychological aspects of this.

Think of it like this: it's only dick. Half the planet has one. It's nothing to be ashamed of or hide. Every single person I have ever met is here because of dick, partially. There shouldn't be anything taboo about it.

 

[wilsonthevolleyball]

Have you found an alternative site that allows you to post live streams without verification? If so, can you share with me because I too would use that site.

Not really. I used to use CB until they made you be registered. Still view cams but that is all. I use some cam to cam sites like dirtyroulette.

 

[rukkaman]

As a predominantly straight guy that posts pics of my cock regularly on this site, it’s all of the above that motivates me.... I like the taboo feeling of sharing my intimate areas that no one irl gets to see :-( and then I also get really turned on by amazing comments of admiration and encouragement from guys that find my parts attractive. It’s admiration I don’t get irl so I’m seeking an outlet.
It’s the same reason I’d get into chaturbate.... I get so hard at the thought of others drooling over me!

@AussieScooter - I checked out your gallery - I'd be willing to admire and encourage you to perform dude - love to watch fit guys with hot cocks getting turned on by exhibiting themselves!!

 

[AussieScooter]

@AussieScooter - I checked out your gallery - I'd be willing to admire and encourage you to perform dude - love to watch fit guys with hot cocks getting turned on by exhibiting themselves!!

Thanks man! Would love to show ya more.

 

[Alpha-1]

Never done the CB thing, but I do post pics on here. For me, I think it's big dick confidence. Over 1000s of years cultures all over the world have evolved promoting this. I personally don't care who looks at mine. If it weren't for repercussions from work, family, social, I'd whip it out for anyone who wants a look.

 

[lenno]

I regularly broadcast on cam4, with face and all. I have nothing to be ashamed of, we all have dicks and masturbate, and actually I would love for real-life friends to watch me: that would mean we are all doing the same stuff, and it may help to bring down many silly socially-constructed barriers... Only, I ask you: if you know me and you watch my cam, do say hello!! don't be ashamed, there is nothing to be ashamed of!...

 

[678wsb]

I'm curious what motivates any guy, but especially straight guys, to show their cocks, jerk off, appear completely nude (show face and be completely unclothed) or all of the above on sites like chaturbate (or any other site where you are broadcasting yourself live).

I can understand the visual aspect - how many men like myself are turned on when they see something sexual (hence looking at porn). I can also understand, stemming from that, that being seen - providing someone else with the visual stimulation - can be a turn-on. But are there other aspects, other things that motivate or turn a guy on from showing his cock to strangers and publicly in a legal way on sites like these? Is it the taboo aspect of it - the danger of doing something forbidden, letting someone see something that is usually off-limits to most people? I'm interested in the psychological aspects of this.

Same reason you have pictures of yourself on your profile.

 

[678wsb]

Never done the CB thing, but I do post pics on here. For me, I think it's big dick confidence. Over 1000s of years cultures all over the world have evolved promoting this. I personally don't care who looks at mine. If it weren't for repercussions from work, family, social, I'd whip it out for anyone who wants a look.

I would definitely look

 

[justahornyguy174]

I used to use it quite a bit, loads of women to watch and then also show myself. It's definitely an exhibitionism thing. The majority of people that will want to chat will be guys but you do get some women on there and it is great being watched, I never show my face as I have actually found a recording of me on my cam on chatubate on a few websites so people record it. I certainly wouldn't want that floating around although it's unlikely anyone I knew would see it.
I use adultwork now, you pay to do cam2cam but it's just you and one other person so you won't be getting recorded!

 

[rukkaman]

Thanks man! Would love to show ya more.

Great - go for it!!

 

[deleted17237241]

Back when it was still pretty new I used to cam there and a few other sites. Others here said it well, it's a mixture of exhibitionism and could sometimes least to surprisingly hot situations.

On the exhibitionist front, I'm usually a pretty shy and modest guy in my day to day life. Online provides a bit of a safe space for showing the other side of oneself that some keep very well hidden. I always had a strong sex drive but was always too shy to really excites it in any way, except online gives that shield that helps lower the inhibitions. I always liked showing that part I never showed anyone, and to get compliments is and was always a thrill.

If was also surprising how many women you could come across. Most of the time it took a bit more tact than just whipping it out immediately, but you could tell that there were some size queens sprinkled in the bunch, as well as some couples too. I would sometimes hang out for awhile, sometimes smoking a joint which was often a good conversation starter and it was always exciting to come across a horny girl who wanted to see what you had packing. I used to wear these shorts that guaranteed a big cock outline and that usually got the curiosity going. I tried being a bit subtle and started covered up, but if I noticed a working partner, would start slowly showing it. Loved getting the big eyes, and seeing them switch from thinking "oh this is just some silly fun" to "oh fuck I want that"...very much a little porn moment when you got someone to break down all their barriers and touch themselves while watching you because they couldn't stop themselves anymore.

I don't know how it is these days, it's been awhile since I've gone on cam. Hoping that one day the wife might get into it, but she's more of a private home video kinda gal. Until then I think my camming days are behind me haha

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

While I have posted a few such videos here and other sites, but they are always careful edited. I would never show my face or any other identifying features and very likely never do it live. The only exception was when the wife and I had sex on camera back in the early days of the internet and with primitive webcams or programs, but even then, it was one-on-one with other couples rather than just putting it out for all to see.

So, while I can't really answer the question, I too have often wondered what motivated supposed "straight" guys to do that, even though it's something I have no interest in.

 

[ss7979]

I have been on womens sites. I love to show off. I worship my body lol.