Approach To Ask So For Mfm 3 Some

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Ladies I would like to get your thoughts on the approach that would work best in asking my SO to do a MFM 3some.

We’ve been together awhile and everything is good. Yes I have thought through scenarios and what if’s that could have things go south.

I’m turned on by the idea, my wife likes younger guys, but is very reserved. No friends etc, away from home, most likely scenario is while in vacation or the like.

I would greatly appreciate your thoughts!
 
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Any reason u have two identical threads in ask a woman? Only advice is grow a pair and just ask her
 
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Without knowing your partner I can’t really comment. It depends on her interests and boundaries tbh. You could casually ask her what she thinks about mfm threesome and then go from there. If she straight up says she’s not into then it would be wise to not pursue it.
 
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So,,,you are kind of looking for her to dispense your kink. No bueno.
Remember, even the stunt cock/Kleenex cock is a human with feelings.
But you won’t have him the next morning. You will, however have her.
 

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Here’s what I don’t understand about some couples: why communication is so hard? You live with the person, sleep with them, ‘love them’, presumably know them better than anybody in the world, yet you come to strangers on the internet for advice on how to talk to them. It’s just odd.

You just bring it up. Likely when you’re talking about fantasies and not about what to get her mom for Christmas. You should be able to tell whether she’s into it or not. My dude could bring it up with zero fear. I’d indulge the fantasy, but nix the reality. Not my thing.
 

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Perhaps the idea of the person laughing, shaming or being freaked out is in play.

Yeah, I used to be scared of that, until I realized that I'd rather be alone than stay with someone who I couldn't ever be my true fucked up nasty self with.

I got lucky to find someone just as fucked up and nasty as me, but there's no way I could have kept it inside forever.
 
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Has she ever brought up the topic?

your posting history suggests you want MMF, as opposed to MFM. Will she have any interest in watching you do another guy?
I didn't know the difference. :worried: Oh my God. I need to make amends. :cold_sweat:
 

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I’m turned on by the idea, my wife likes younger guys, but is very reserved. No friends etc, away from home, most likely scenario is while in vacation or the like.
So, you have enough close communication to know that she likes younger but too distant to ask her for a third wheel.

I really would like to jump to conclusions and write about them but I have proclaimed today as Taya Be Good Day.
 
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I didn't know the difference. :worried: Oh my God. I need to make amends. :cold_sweat:
If you think of a ham sandwich... In MMF it goes bread (man), ham (man), then the last layer of bread (woman). On the other hand, MFM is bread (man), ham (woman), bread (man).

In the perfect MFM scenario... the two layers of bread don’t touch :p whereas in MMF, the bread and ham are all up in each other’s grills ;)
 

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Everything the lassies said. They covered it well.

Even in a kink crowd threesomes almost always brings some drama.

If you are only interested in a threesome for sexual access to another man? Dude, keep it in the spank bank. This will not end well.
 

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If you think of a ham sandwich... In MMF it goes bread (man), ham (man), then the last layer of bread (woman). On the other hand, MFM is bread (man), ham (woman), bread (man).

In the perfect MFM scenario... the two layers of bread don’t touch :p whereas in MMF, the bread and ham are all up in each other’s grills ;)
Oh I got it. Thus the amends. o_O
But, thanks for this. Exactly suits "layman's terms" or rather "laywoman's terms" in my case. :mask:
 
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Everything the lassies said. They covered it well.

Even in a kink crowd threesomes almost always brings some drama.

If you are only interested in a threesome for sexual access to another man? Dude, keep it in the spank bank. This will not end well.

Bark bark bark.
Yes! Timmy is in the well!
 
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