Approched by Bulge Admirers?

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  1. hairythickmeat

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    I am an avid bulge watcher but I've never approached any of the guys that have impressed me.

    I'm curious if any of you have either approached or have been approached by someone who admired your bulge.

    I've been approached on a few different occasions...

    The first happened while jogging. I had been jogging for quite a while and stopped at a park to drink some water from a fountain and an older fit man, probably in his late 40's, dressed in business attire, came to the fountain. I thought he was waiting to get a sip of water, which he did. As i was catching my breath, he started some small talk..."nice day for running, isn't it?", etc. As he was talking I noticed that he wasn't looking me in the eye as he spoke. I innocently looked down at my shirt, thinking maybe I had gotten something on it, and the man spoke up saying, " that thing looks pretty big". I knew that he was talking about my cock when i saw a smirk on his face. The shorts I was wearing already cupped my basket but my package was more visible because they were somewhat wet from some intense sweating. I didn't really know how to respond, so I nervously thanked him. I went back to the fountain to ease the tension and he propositioned me. He asked me if I'd ever been with another man and told me that a young fit guy like myself could always use a mentor to teach me how to use a big one like that. I said, "no thank you, but you're welcome to enjoy the view! and jogged away.

    I've thought about this situation quite a bit and was curious if this has happened to anyone else. If so, how did you handle your situation?
     
  2. Dr Rock

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    yes, all the friggin time. it was funny when I was 12, but it got old real quick.

    depends on my mood at the time. usually I'll just smile or roll my eyes or respond "yeah, great..." if I'm pissed off at the time, I may well make a sarcastic remark or otherwise make the observer feel like an idiot. not very mature perhaps, but too many creepy and/or simply annoying experiences with over-zealous crotch-watchers has knocked down my patience threshold where they're concerned. it's irritating enough to be stared at like a freakshow exhibit without them vocalizing it as well.
     
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    Women "crotch-watch" but are usually not vocal about it. On occasion, when a woman has been drunk at a bar, I've had comments about my bulge. Usually though it's only from gay men.
     
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    Krueger: I don't know if I'm unobservant in this area (I am with everything else), but I don't think I'm ever the subject of this. I have NEVER noticed anyone crotchwatching me. Only once has anyone said anything to me. This makes sense really: not much of a bulge going on, I don't think. It was weird when it happen though. A chick friend of mine pointed and asked if I had an erection. I said no. She said that was odd, as she was "usually good at spotting hardons." I was mildly surprised. She said a vague comment about size and then after an awkward silent moment, we just kept talking about other stuff.
     
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    This situation may be stretching the thread's title to cover it, because actually, the way I understand it, a bulge has to be under clothing, but I'm reminded of the time at the YMCA when I was naked in the wet area and a dude approached me asking if I wouldn't mind telling him how 'thick' my cock got on hard. Before this time I had told the measurements, but decided to tell this fellow that he could measure it if he liked. I've never been selfish with my penis.

    Luke
     
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    I get cock-watched all the time. AND...I have a lot of guys from the gym/college classes/complete strangers who approach me asking about my cock or asking me to sleep with them.
     
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    It's happened to me more than a few times. A guy will say, "I love that big bulge in your pants!" I'll say, "How nice for you," and promptly find something else to do or someone else to talk to. Size queens turn me off.
     
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    Yes, it happens more often then I care to mention. I suppose people find it flattering however, I do not. I recently went to a tapas lounge and after partaking of too much sangria I left the salsa dancing to proceed to the rest room. Some random chick walks up to me outside and grabs my cock and tells me too wait for her to come out of the bathroom so she can dance with me. Needless to say, I didn't wait and tried my best to avoid her for the rest of the evening. Shit like that just pisses me off.
     
  9. Imported

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    zgirl248: You know you would find me staring at your package, Caleb! I know what it looks like. And I likes what I sees!
     
  10. Goose_Eggs

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    I've certainly been approached by people when I'm really hanging, swinging, and/or obviously showing -- to be expected the way I see it. I do freeball most of the time and sometimes I know that I'm really showing, but don't care because it is comfortable. At least for me, if I'm really wearing something revealing I'm sort of baiting for a little attention and certainly don't get uptight about it -- laugh it off if I'm not interested, and respond/flirt back if I am. Must admit I've had numerous little encounters as a result of it, as well as many times I've just laughed it off or politely said "no thank you" to the ones I"m not interested in. I've even made a few comments to exhibitionists that I was interested in!

    guss I"m a bit of a "filthy exhibitionist/voyeur" ........
     
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    It happens all the time. Unfortunately, many of the people who notice are ones I wish hadn't. I encounter a lot of those when I'm hiking or walking for exercise. (I guess I'm asking for it, as in hiking shorts I tend to look like my avatar.) Sometimes I tease them a little for entertainment, that is, not encouraging them, but not telling them outright to go to hell. That's had a few interesting results:

    One guy in a pickup truck made a dozen or so U-turns in heavy traffic, so he could keep looping past me as I walked along a major avenue. Eventually, I got bored, and turned off onto a bike trail.

    Another time, on a hiking trail, a guy did the same thing on his bike, passing me, then stopping to watch me walk up time and time again. When I last saw the pathetic thing, he was in the bushes furiously jerking off.

    Other times, they just follow along. Some of the bold ones beg for a suck. For some reason (perhaps not surprisingly), they're always the hideous ones. Every once in a rare while, there's a cute one with a more refined approach, who seems to be interested in what's above the waist, too. Sometimes they get a taste, or a little more.


    Other ones were unexpectedly amusing:

    Once as I was crossing the street, a woman passenger in an SUV stopped at the light sticks her head out the window and yells "Get a jock, for christsake!" The really funny part was watching her make sure the male driver of the vehicle saw it, too.

    Last April, as I'm walking past a bus stop, a rather attractive young man sitting on the bench says "Now, that's the basket I want for Easter!" Too bad I was tired out from walking...I would like to have given that one his Easter wish!


    I get it wearing jeans, too. More of those comments tend to be from people that might interest me, although there are plenty of offensive trolls. Just a few of the better stories:

    The first time I can remember, I was in the Boots and Saddle in NYC, leaning against the wall with my beer. The bartender (Tim, back in those days) keeps shining a flashlight on my crotch from his position behind the bar. When I go up to the bar for another mug of Spaten, I find that the bartender and one of the patrons on a bar stool have been sort of wagering if it's real or stuffed. I let them settle the issue.

    A couple of years ago, walking on Haight street in San Francisco, and a guy approaching me starts to grin. As he passes by, he leans close, and quietly says "Nice package." A block later, I attracted attention again, this time from someone either quite homophobic, insecure, or both. As I approach, he starts to yell out "Oh no! Oh no! You take that shit back to the Castro (gay neighborhood is S.F.). Don't you walk around here like that!" As I was wearing nothing out of the ordinary, I can only imagine he was scared of a little bulge.

    This year while in San Francisco for the Dore Alley Fair, I was standing in the doorway of Harvey's, deciding if I wanted to have lunch there, when a guy sitting at the bar motions me over. He says someting about the jeans, discretely gropes me, then asks "When you have a conversation with someome, do they ever just keep looking at your crotch?" He and his partner turned out to be cool guys, and I joined them at the bar for brunch. The server screwed up, and put my order on their check. When I offered to pay for my share, to avoid having to wait for a new bill to be prepared, he said "Put your wallet away. You'll just fuck me later." (And Sunday evening, with the last of my strength after an exhausting weekend, I did.)

    While entering the fair on Sunday morning, in levis and chaps, the guy at the gate was a bit unsure where to put my admission sticker. I was barechested, and assured him I would sweat it off of my bare skin. He says "How about your denim?" and starts nervously circling around my left leg, where the levis bulge hangs over the edge of the chaps leg. In the end, he chickens out and sticks it somewhat up above. I say "Thank You, " and he replies "Oh, no, Sir. Thank YOU very much. It was a nice experience."

    A couple of years ago at the IML leather market, two guys approach me, asking about the bulge. "Sir, we have seen a couple of bulges like yours. What did you buy to get that?" When I explained it was just my cock, they doubted me, so I unbuttoned. The next thing I know, this really hot Israeli guy shoves the two of them out of the way, and is all over me. We could barely contain ourselves for the time it took to get to my room, where I pounded the cum out of him in just a few minutes, then blew my own load all over him.

    That was wearing my SportJeans (www.sportjeans.com). I had no such adventure wearing them this year at IML, but did have several porn actors, at their studio's booths, complement me, and ask where they could get such jeans. One vendor of erotic sculpture saw the bulge, started chatting, and pulled me out and started stroking me in his exhibit booth. When his boyfriend came by, he sort of suggested that we could fuck in this little space between the curtains separating the booths. The thought of doing something so sleazy in a crowded semi-public sapce was sort of a turn-on, and it almost happend, by the boyfriend had some doubts about he amount of preparation needed for my girth.

    Last summer, I was walking in the West Village in NYC, and see this guy sort of crusing me on the street for a while. But, he's shy, and nothing happens. A couple
    of hours later, I see him again, in front of a barber shop, awaiting his turn. I say hello, and start to chat. We mention the heat, and how much I'm sweating. "Well, your left leg should be cool," he says. "Huh?" I reply. "That thing looks like it gives a lot of shade" he answers. He very nervouly reaches out, touches it quickly, blushes, and darts into the barber shop.

    Do jockstrap bulge comments count?
     
  12. Goose_Eggs

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    lol, well Eric you may be a bigger filthy exhibitionist than I ..........

    One of my favorites was when I was jogging in Denver last year. The health club recommends a common 3 mile route that circles a park and back down to the club. I notice a guy really giving me a stare from his car at a red light, then I notice him driving through the park as I circle (it was hot and my balls were really bouncing). I stop for water at a fountain, catch my breath and cool down just a bit, and who happens to walk by, lol...... he makes some small talk about how warm it is, blah, blah, I notice some twtichin in his pants, so I kneel down to tie my shoe and let my stuff hang out the leg of my shorts to tease him a bit. He says something about how lucky I am to be able to be swinging free on this hot day, rubs his crotch and tells me how all this heat gives his cock a mind of its own and rubs it running down his leg. By this time I've got a nice swell going on my cock and it is clearly noticeable, so look down at my crotch and say that I didn't have time this morning to jack off and am feeling pretty horny too and laugh and say I better get going. Then he startles me by saying very frankly that he sometimes jacks off at lunch, is feeling so horny that today is definitely one of those days to take matters "into his own hands", do I wanna join him?! I laugh, tell him I don't have a lot of time, but thanks, thinking he wants to go to his place. He says cool, but he's going to head around the corner and pull his pud before he goes back to work. Puzzled, I said "around the corner?", he tells me that there is a parking garage a couple of blocks away that is very quiet this time of day, points to it and I get going on my way back........... After about just a quarter mile going around the park I'm getting horney thinking about it, my cock is so swollen I have to stop and walk cause it flies out leg of my shorts if I run! I give up on the run, start to head back and decide to go one block out of my way by the parking garage he pointed to. As I walk by, there he is standing on the second level, nods toward the door to the stairwell just ahead of me. I of course can't resist, and as I approach the door I notice it is not quite latched so I open and there he is standing with is pants down below his knees pulling on a fair sized cock. He pulls the door closed behind me and says looks like I changed my mind, I stoke my cock which is now 3/4 hard, sticking out leg of my shorts. I drop my shorts and lean back thinking I'll just have a hot jackoff with his hot guy and be on my way. We stroke for just a few minutes and I'm just sort of going along with this guy and getting really turned on by the public place when he really shocks me: says "you're kinda big, but I'd be willing to let you use my ass for a pussy if you'd give me a hand job while you do it -- no promises I can take it, but I'll try" As he looks up pulling a rubber out of his pocket I'm about to cum already! It was kind of hard getting in and getting him relaxed, but needless to say, I pumped him hard in ass and pumped his cock hard too as he leaned forward and shot on the stairs................... when it was all over, he says how much he loves a good hand-job, and leaves.

    Kinda long sorry -- best part was that night I was having dinner with two business associates and he was sitting two tables over with is wife and two kids!
     
  13. indianaman_04

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    This always makes me wonder how guys would like to be approached? I always read where it is a turn off for most guys but yet they enjoy the attention so which is it, do you want to be approached or not? I'm confused. I don't think of myself as an old troll and I am always the shy one but I have thought about approaching guys many times. I'm also the one that drives around the block just to get a closer look. How will I ever know it is okay to approach you unless I make it obvious?
     
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    Well, look at it this way. You've probably got at least a 50/50 shot. If the guy is showing major package, advertising the wares so to speak, what have you got to lose? A verbal rejection certainly doesn't hurt...long. It's worth a shot! Hell, if a guy is advertising, guys are going to be, at the very least window shopping. And they f'n know it.
     
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    Indiana, I think the answer to your question "is it offensive or not?" really boils down to the person........ some are outrageously offended by remarks, I'm just more laid-back about it. But with that said, I definitely agree with KinkGuy -- if you are walking around obviously showing/flaunting your stuff you are basically inviting some sort of comment or attention, even if on a subconscious level. For me, the only time I find it offensive is when I decline an offer and the interested party is persistent and won't 'take no thank you' for an answer and just keeps hounding me. In all fairness, this happens only a small percentage of the time so I just take it all with a grain of salt and enjoy it if I have the time ....... ;)
     
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    If you guys figure out a way to gently rebuff approaches like that, let us girls know!

    By the way, if you're interested in a girl and you start talking to her, "what's your name?" and/or "do you have a boyfriend?" are not good conversation starters...

    This has happened to me way too many times in the last few days. *checks my breasts* I don't think they got any bigger...
     
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    If the main reason is the size of my cock bulge, I'd rather not be approached at all.
     
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    If the main reason is the size of my cock bulge, I'd rather not be approached at all.
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    So, how would someone, like me for example, be able to tell the ones that would rather not be approached at all from the ones that are clearly wanting to be approached?

    I'm just trying to figure out how anyone ever gets anything social accomplished, maybe no one does anymore, I dunno.
     
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    yes, this starts out "one night in a gay bar"...I saw the gorgeous ex-boyfriend of a friend of mine. They had been split 2 years and I had always secretly been hot for him. He saw me and his eyes dropped to my crotch. He walked up to me and without saying a word, grabbed my cock full force. It was the most un-sexy thing he could have done at that moment. He instantly killed my crush. I told him to remove his hand before I broke it and never saw him again.
     
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    Too bad, could've been the beginning of a life-long partnership. lol
     
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