Are any straight guys facinated with large penis' and muscular guys

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  1. BIGMIKE

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    I have always liked looking at large penis' and very muscular guys. I did experiment with a guy when I was younger, about 17 years ago. We messed around a few times, the only thing we done was give each other head, but it wasn't for me or him. I was just curious. Now, when I see a nice looking guy that is very muscular or has a large package in pictures or in person, it's hard for me not to look. I am not offended by gay guys/women but I find it very disgusting to see guys getting it on, kissing, having anal sex, and so on. Im in a GREAT relationship with my fiance'e, we have had lots of sex, 4 play, and whatever. We are very happy and are actually looking forward to having kids after were married. I just want to know if I'm the only one out here that has the same "issue". If I do see someone like that, it makes me a little uncomfortable to just stare but I am almost facinated for some reason. With the muscular guy comment, I have seen some guys that i just want to go up and "feel" their bodies just to see what their muscles feel like! I feel like a weirdo for even asking this, but it's been driving me crazy for many years!!:confused:
     
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    Hey bro. I think alot of guys are in the same position as you. I'm straight and have never done anything with another dude but a nice cock and body just gets me hard. I've got a gf and we have sex almost every day and I love her and all but for some reason it turns me on to look at a nice dick.. I don't think there's any harm there. And I'm not into seeing anal or kissing either bud.
     
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    Sounds like a real conflict of interest. You want to feel a muscular hung guy up, but two guys getting it on is disgusting to you.
     
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    I learn a lot reading these forums. Actually, I have met a lot of straight dudes that are interested in big cocks and muscle jocks. I know some gay guys that will only have sex with straight guys. I don't bother figuring those guys out.

     
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    If I am wearing a tank top in the summer in public I will get a LOT of guys (more then women) checking me out. I get a lot of guys walking up to me and asking questions about training, etc. and they all seem to admire, or perhaps just envy, a very muscular physique. I know how sexy women feel when men are staring at them.

    I am much more a grower.than a shower so guys may not check out my package in the showered.... But they do anyway.
     
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    For the OP:

    It doesn't seem to be mentioned very much, but there is an entire area of psychology which links ENVY and homosexual attraction.

    We somehow can be "turned on" by that which we admire and wish we could emulate.

    homosexual attraction envy - Google Search
     
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    this is how i always felt. you know, until i got a boyfriend...
     
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    I only have sex with str8 guys...............chortle chortle
     
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    Well, I don't think that works for every man who is turned on by big dicks (watching straight porn tells us that most men are fascinated by big peters). Even getting turned on big muscles still doesn't mean you really gay or truly want a boyfriend. Lots of men simply have what are called "jealously" attractions, which can lead to experimentation and "pseudo" gay behaviors. That said, if you're falling in love with men, you're at least bisexual (unless at some point in time your sexuality evolves and swings in the other direction, or you become asexual; still, this is not real common, I would imagine).
     
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    Most of my buddies are 7 inches or bigger and we have been hanging out together for a few years now. We are are all str8, but we have no trouble getting naked together. A couple of months ago we had a birthday party for one - birthday suits are required. We had a great time - just chilling out.
     
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    No big mike you are not a wierdo,there is a part of you that likes hot men,but have bin told not to when you where yonger.Your friend left you with a hot memory and you could be missing what you did.
     
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    i'd say i have a bit of a fascination with muscular men which is not due to sexual attraction. i work out a lot and if i see a dude thats really cut up i'll more so use it as motivation.
     
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    As a freshman in high school, I was booted out of the closet by this guy who found out I had a crush on him. By the next day everyone was gossiping about my faggot-y habbits and how gay I was. Problem was I wasn't entirely sure. I knew I liked men, I just wasn't sure of my attraction to women. I was so shy and unsure of myself, I fully embraced the "gay identity" the crowd bestowed on me. Took me awhile to get over the fear of letting myself find women attractive at all (aka college). This made me realize something. In high school, I identified as gay and claimed no attraction to women at all. Only it's not that I didn't find them attractive, it was that I was afraid of approaching the subject whatsoever.
    Being afraid of finding men or women attractive is completely different from not finding them attractive in the first place. One is an opinion, the other is simply fear. Sexuality is a psychological concept; it's complicated beyond belief (most definitely beyond men vs women). If you find yourself curious about something specific, I wouldn't be afraid to explore (kind of like me and eating a girl out...one fo these days...)
    Find other men like yourself and have fun; life is just too short.
     
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    same boat OP.

    I did some mutual masturbation with a buddy in HS but nothing more than that. I have no desire to have any type of sex with a guy, but the image of a hot/hung/hot and hung guy plowing a tight snatch or a willing arse is equally hot to me.

    I just chalk it up to voyeurism and poor self esteem :/
     
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    I'm bi-curious, but I can see what you're saying. I don't real muscular guys like... sexy, but I admire them in a way that I wish I was more muscular.
     
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    I do not want to sound arrogrant, but I am 34 and very athletic. I am 6'2" weigh 225 pounds, have a 48" chest, 33" waist, 29" thighs-- so I know I am built. I have had both men and women check me out. I am 99.9% straight but I have to admit, I love it when a guy or a lady check me out. I work out hard and I am proud of it. Sometime I dress to show off my body and sometimes I don't. I love to go to the beach here in Perth (I am an American, who has moved because of a job to Australia 2 years ago) wearing a Speedo and know I am being looked at.
     
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    Good post!

    I think that constant labeling has imprisoned you sexually as it is acting as a barrier from crossing into heterosexual exploration. Deep in your subconscious, even if you have solid grounds for questioning being completely homosexual (heterosexual fantasies, etc), you believe yourself to be gay and only gay because you were cemented into that camp from the moment that others noticed that you were feeling gay and not straight, in light of the "fact" that straight and gay sexualities are like oil and water.

    I sure hope you get to eat pussy at some point, if not fuck one with your hard dick. That way, you'll have a better sense of who you are sexually. You might find out that you're less gay than you thought, or the contrary. Or perhaps you'll find out your truly bi and should not have been limiting yourself to just one gender all these years. You may even end up considering yourself predominantly hetersexual after some pussy exploration. Who knows? That's only for you to find out, should you break free from the "label" chains imposed on you by society.

    Time for me to watch some girl-on-girl action.

    Take care.
     
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    I already have broken free. I have fucked a vagina and gone down on her clit. I fingered her actual vagina, and a string home-made lube attached to my finger. It seemed kind of gross, so I just avoided putting my tongue in the actual vagina. At some point I want to continue that exploration (because I already know I like it) just not at the moment. My life is quite hectic in every meaning of the word at the moment. When things begin to calm down, and I get out of this small town, I'll probably explore it more. Well, that and I got involved with this guy this summer, took up all of my time. Can only be stretched so far don't chyea know?
     
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    I think a guy is bisexual if he has a girlfriend but is turned on by a hung and muscular guy.
     
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    the thing about bisexuality is that it is the most un-descriptive word ever. The only thing it could possibly tell someone is that I'm only about one gender. You could be about gender in a million different ways. This one guy told me he was bi only because he fell in love with a guy emotionally. That was the exception and he would never ever go there with any other ever at all. To him, he was still bisexual. In terms of statistics, most people are bisexual, so it really doesn't tell me squat if a guy tells me he's bisexual.
     
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