I do not want to sound arrogrant, but I am 34 and very athletic. I am 6'2" weigh 225 pounds, have a 48" chest, 33" waist, 29" thighs-- so I know I am built. I have had both men and women check me out. I am 99.9% straight but I have to admit, I love it when a guy or a lady check me out. I work out hard and I am proud of it. Sometime I dress to show off my body and sometimes I don't. I love to go to the beach here in Perth (I am an American, who has moved because of a job to Australia 2 years ago) wearing a Speedo and know I am being looked at.