No, and no.
A woman's self esteem has little to do with her capacity for, or enjoyment of, well endowed men. Also, many women that are larger on top wish they weren't, and go to great lengths to hide their assets. Huge boobs may be the holy grail for many guys, but think of what a woman with them has to endure just to find clothing that fits, athletic activity that doesn't hurt, or guys that can look them in the eyes when trying to charm those boobs (what? there's a person attached to these things?) into bed.
Trashy, uneducated heathrn (sic)? Dude, really?