I know a number of gay police who work in Manhattan, but not Brooklyn, Bronx, or Queens. El Lay police tend to be homophobic, unless you're in West Hollywood, Westwood, Brentwood, Beverly Hills. Orange County cops, in general, are a viscious band of peace-keepers. But they also have a viscious crowd to deal with.
The bretheren who help themselves to serve in SLC and most other parts of the Land O' Zion, are paticularly nasty and are still into "gay baiting." A friend and his "new" friend were recently hauled off to jail for kissing -- just light kissing, no deep tonsil hockeying -- in what passes for a gay bar in that city. After 24-hours in jail they were released and no charges were filed.
It depends where you are in Nevada. There is some truth to the spoofing of Reno 911, although the majority of the city police are damn fine folk. The majority support gay rights and are gay "sensitive." Note, I wrote the "majority."
In Vegas, well . . . you're pretty much on your own. There are plenty of gay cops working in Vegas, Henderson, and unincorporated areas. But those police have to put up with too much shit from the general public 24/7 to remember to always be nice to gays and Lesbians.
San Francisco's finest tend to be very sensitive to gay issues (including sex in public during certain Castro-area celebrations). But not always.
San Diego's Finest -- a once proud and fabu police force -- has been through better times. It depends upon what part of the city you are in and which pricinct. San Diego has it's share of gay cops, but things seem to have become worse in recent years.
"And that's all I know about the South.":smile:
If you want to know about Spain and Argentina, PM me. It's a big ol' world out here.:biggrin1: