it's not all about sex, but it can be depending on the context in which you meet other gay guys.... if you met this guy on a hookup site, then you can only expect that you're going to be meeting under a sexual context.... that's why it's a hookup site.... if you met him on a friendship/dating site, then your chances of remaining friendly and just taking it slow are much better....
some guys don't understand the concept of context, and run the risk of overstepping boundaries depending on how the conversation is going.... i will say though: if all you're doing is sending photos and gawking at each other, then said boundaries are much easier to cross than if you were just having straight up conversation.... it gets easier to read in to the more you use the internet to meet guys, and you'll eventually find a website that will best suit your purposes....
don't sweat it though: i've found that no metter the website, you'll meet a lot of duds before you meet someone actually worth knowing....
I kind of agree with you in some ways but in other ways I think no! I feel that when you come on to sites on line, hook up's or not, dating or relationship sites, they are all similar in some way or other, I mean the online world allows people to show you things about them that you wouldn't normally see. I talking about sites and this site and this post, do not feel that its only gay people who are sexually promiscuous, straight men and women are equally so.
I feel you have some people gay or straight who are happy with their lot, and others who are just d***y f*****g b******s and have no regard for the feelings of people who have given their life to love and be faithful to them in a committed relationship.
I've had my heart broken three times and two of them cheated because the fact is, not because they didn't care or love me, they were simply sex addicts and couldn't get enough, the third lied to me, because he was actually married with three kids and lived s double life with me for six years and never seen his wife or kids for 7.5 years, but eventually went back to her after six years with me! Shocking but true, and he cried when he told me, but he lied, and broke my fucking heart! I gave him six years of my life and he destroyed me, emotionally and my trust in men, went down from there!
So no matter what people say, I know in his country you get ten years to life for being gay and committing a homosexual act, so when he came here and was liberalised, I didn't want to go out with him and he chased me for over a year, buy i gave in and ended up being the only man he ever went with and believe me, in the bedroom i can tell you he was one of the most sexual people I've ever met, its literally all he ever thought of and i often had to say hay way man, give me a rest! He was a proper pest! But i did love him and he did break my heart but i feel once five and a half years into our relationship when he told me he was married and had three kids, the lie was when we just list what we had and things were never the same again and he moved back to his country of birth and that was the end of us!
But to say all gay people are in so many words 'your saying we are all slags' that just isn't true!
