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I think that all this speculation of whether it was because of a strong or absent father figure or whether the mother was domineering or whatever
...is a lot of horse pucky.
No one can convience me that we are not born with our sexual proclivities.
I have known that I liked both sexes since I was 6 or 7 and have enjoyed
love and sexual pleasures with both males and females, and would have it no other way. I do not regret that I was married to the most wonderful woman that ever lived, although I do regret that the marriage did not last. Being a natural father is the most wonderful thing to happen to a man, EVER, and I am greatly honored to be a father.
WhoM I love, is dictated by how my heart reacts to someone. At present I am in a relationship for over 20+ years with a wonderful man.
I had a wonderful, attentive and loving father who was strong, but not overbearing, and whose strong masculine ways I believe I have iinherited.
My mother was wonderful, loving, and supportive. I believe I have gotten from her my ability to make friends, and to feel free to accept and to love others without question. I'm the only one of a family of 7 that is anything other than straight.
Over the years I have known many Gay, Lesbian, and Bis and there is only one that I know of that did not have the same type of upbringing and family as I. His father was a US Marine and killed in battle, leaving him without a father. However, he was already Gay before he lost his father.
So, the answer to the question "Are gay men often fatherless sons?" my answer is NO, I don't think so and don't believe it have any connection since I believe your are born with your sexual preferences.
...is a lot of horse pucky.
No one can convience me that we are not born with our sexual proclivities.
I have known that I liked both sexes since I was 6 or 7 and have enjoyed
love and sexual pleasures with both males and females, and would have it no other way. I do not regret that I was married to the most wonderful woman that ever lived, although I do regret that the marriage did not last. Being a natural father is the most wonderful thing to happen to a man, EVER, and I am greatly honored to be a father.
WhoM I love, is dictated by how my heart reacts to someone. At present I am in a relationship for over 20+ years with a wonderful man.
I had a wonderful, attentive and loving father who was strong, but not overbearing, and whose strong masculine ways I believe I have iinherited.
My mother was wonderful, loving, and supportive. I believe I have gotten from her my ability to make friends, and to feel free to accept and to love others without question. I'm the only one of a family of 7 that is anything other than straight.
Over the years I have known many Gay, Lesbian, and Bis and there is only one that I know of that did not have the same type of upbringing and family as I. His father was a US Marine and killed in battle, leaving him without a father. However, he was already Gay before he lost his father.
So, the answer to the question "Are gay men often fatherless sons?" my answer is NO, I don't think so and don't believe it have any connection since I believe your are born with your sexual preferences.