Lex
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- Lex,
I think our definitions of open-minded may be different. Asking a question does not make someone open-minded, per sea. Open minded, to me, involves accepting that there are things that I may never understand and accepting that my understanding of those things should not be and is not requisite in my being able to accept them as possibilities and/or socially acceptable actualities.
As a friend jokes, "Straight people aren't normal, they're just common." :tongue:
Also--as someone who once thought he was straight (for over 30 years and has 2 kids and a marriage to speak for it)--I do not assume that all people are consciously aware of their true orientation at any given moment in time. I don't think you are lying, I was trying to reinforce for you why some people who have been here for a time MIGHT think your orientation may be something other than what you report or what you think it is.
I personally don't find issue with any type of man understanding me. I get along with and am accepted (and, in turn, do accept) straight, gay and bi men who understand that the direction in which your love points in irrelevant in as far as what makes you a man. I think that truly open-minded straight men (And I have many friends like this) understand and get me just fine.
As a friend jokes, "Straight people aren't normal, they're just common." :tongue:
Also--as someone who once thought he was straight (for over 30 years and has 2 kids and a marriage to speak for it)--I do not assume that all people are consciously aware of their true orientation at any given moment in time. I don't think you are lying, I was trying to reinforce for you why some people who have been here for a time MIGHT think your orientation may be something other than what you report or what you think it is.
I personally don't find issue with any type of man understanding me. I get along with and am accepted (and, in turn, do accept) straight, gay and bi men who understand that the direction in which your love points in irrelevant in as far as what makes you a man. I think that truly open-minded straight men (And I have many friends like this) understand and get me just fine.