I don't think it's that gross, but I agree that men hate hearing it when some of us say we're not that into their cum, and how much they can cum. I think they're more fascinated with it than we are--they've been masturbating since they were teens and semen is a sign of virility.
I've never had a boyfriend ejaculate on my face or body, but I have seen a few masturbate, and the ejaculate quantity varies. And it's not like I became a crazed nympho when I saw a lot come out.
Unfortunately, some men feel they have to keep up with the guys who make porn films, and use them as their role models for sex.
Personally, I prefer him to ejaculate inside of me, and if everything goes right, we can orgasm at the same time. I love the sensation when he's just about to lose control, and at the point of no return. His breathing becomes heavier and heavier, his face has that look of ecstasy, he starts bucking faster and faster, and then his cock starts twitching and pumping out the load. And while he's ejaculating he keeps moving until he can't go any further.
The feeling of the penis going soft inside of me is nice, too.
What about pregnancy worries in a steady relationship?
Personally, I prefer him to ejaculate inside of me, and if everything goes right, we can orgasm at the same time. I love the sensation when he's just about to lose control, and at the point of no return. His breathing becomes heavier and heavier, his face has that look of ecstasy, he starts bucking faster and faster, and then his cock starts twitching and pumping out the load. And while he's ejaculating he keeps moving until he can't go any further.
What about pregnancy worries in a steady relationship?
having sex at all without birth control can lead to babies. Even if you pull out before cumming. Some of those little soldiers can sneek in undected and infiltrate
Men have far fewer birth control options than women.
They have condoms, pulling out(not reliable), or vasectomy.
A woman can get pregnant maybe 7 days out of the month.
We also have pills, patches, IUD's, IUS(like an IUD), Depo Provera injections, contraceptive sponges, diaphragms, cervical caps, Nuva ring, tubal ligation(having your tubes tied), female condoms, and natural methods(fertility tracking if you have a regular cycle).
I may have left out some, but you get the picture.
I was once dating a girl and she insisted on me wearing a condom ALL THE TIME while she was on the pill. She had no STD's. She claimed that she knew the pill did not provide 100% protection against pregnancy FOR HER. She had gotten pregnant in the past(previous b.f. of hers) WHILE ON THE PILL but she miscarried. Was she a special case where the pill did not provide 100% protection against pregnancy or was this a load of crap?
my girl is on the pill and she makes me wear a condom cause she has medication that has a risk of making the pill ineffective.
alot of guy always want to cum bucket loads but do girls realy get impressed if a guy cums loads
and the other way round are they not impressed if its a tiny amount of cum???
i cum quite heavy like around 10 thick ropes on average
Niice!I am not qualified to speak on behalf of most women, but I can account for one whom I've known. She and I had sex, and I was wearing a condom. When I came inside of her, she nearly lost it, and actually did, firing off a quivering orgasm as I came inside of her. She said she had never felt anything like that before.
Allegedly, when I cum, I shoot load after load, cumming (1) in large amounts, and (2) very powerfully. She said that she had never felt the feeling of a man actually shooting, and the stream of cum hitting her inside. That along with the fact that apparently my cock pulsates and throbs in excess during and after my orgasm, was enough to convince her to make sure that if I was going to cum anywhere, it was inside of her. She would get off literally every time. Amazing.
But thats just the experience of one person.
Niice!
Very hot story! I have never had a guy with a huge load, but I know the extra pulsing and throbbing feels amazing! I have been known to orgasm from just a few kegels or throbbing at penetration... good times. :wink:
I don't think it's that gross, but I agree that men hate hearing it when some of us say we're not that into their cum, and how much they can cum. I think they're more fascinated with it than we are--they've been masturbating since they were teens and semen is a sign of virility.
I've never had a boyfriend ejaculate on my face or body, but I have seen a few masturbate, and the ejaculate quantity varies. And it's not like I became a crazed nympho when I saw a lot come out.
Unfortunately, some men feel they have to keep up with the guys who make porn films, and use them as their role models for sex.
Personally, I prefer him to ejaculate inside of me, and if everything goes right, we can orgasm at the same time. I love the sensation when he's just about to lose control, and at the point of no return. His breathing becomes heavier and heavier, his face has that look of ecstasy, he starts bucking faster and faster, and then his cock starts twitching and pumping out the load. And while he's ejaculating he keeps moving until he can't go any further.
The feeling of the penis going soft inside of me is nice, too.
I'm fortunate that ejaculating inside her often triggers her orgasm. It's so important to her that she rarely wants me to shoot anywhere else. Which is fine with me!
I am not qualified to speak on behalf of most women, but I can account for one whom I've known. She and I had sex, and I was wearing a condom. When I came inside of her, she nearly lost it, and actually did, firing off a quivering orgasm as I came inside of her. She said she had never felt anything like that before.
Allegedly, when I cum, I shoot load after load, cumming (1) in large amounts, and (2) very powerfully. She said that she had never felt the feeling of a man actually shooting, and the stream of cum hitting her inside. That along with the fact that apparently my cock pulsates and throbs in excess during and after my orgasm, was enough to convince her to make sure that if I was going to cum anywhere, it was inside of her. She would get off literally every time. Amazing.
But thats just the experience of one person.
LargeInLife,
I couldn't help but laugh when you said "Allegedly." :biggrin1: You know if you shoot spurt after spurt in large amounts.
I know that women can feel the growing corona of a man's orgasm just prior to his ejaculation. I know women can feel the throbbing and pulsating. LargeInLife's comments may prompt a little discussion as to whether or not women can actually feel the spurts inside the vagina.
I'm yet to understand what a "huge load" really means...i.e., how do you quantify that? Do you measure with a cup? Spoon? other? Generally speaking I would say that if that cum tip of a condom isn't enough to take all the cum you would have excess load...and the force of ejaculation of course. I agree with gogoguy though...most women don't really feel the cum (only the ejaculation and force of it). But when it drips out you can then tell how much of a load it was...lol