Are girls turned off by a guy who doesn't finish?

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I'm on prescription medication that makes it very difficult to reach orgasm, aka "cum".

Takes a really long time and sometimes doesn't happen at all.

Ladies, if a guy IS able to get it up and please you, but has a difficult time ejaculating, would this be a huge turn off?
 

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It does taint the experience but if you explain to a women why you can't cum she won't take it personal. I dated someone that wouldn't cum if we had sex during the day because he said it totally wiped him out so he wanted me to always sleep over. Until he explained this to me I didn't understand what was going on.
 
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I'm on prescription medication that makes it very difficult to reach orgasm, aka "cum".

Takes a really long time and sometimes doesn't happen at all.

Ladies, if a guy IS able to get it up and please you, but has a difficult time ejaculating, would this be a huge turn off?

I have met many women my age or younger that have a need for medication these days to function. I sometimes try to understand why this is. Intimacy seems to be the thing that crops up. With revolving relationships more than not the norm, lack of being truly intimate with another is becoming a rareity. We seem to search more into the past for an anchor.
 
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The huge turn off for me would be a guy who couldn't or wouldn't communicate with me about what is/was going on. We all have less than stellar moments in bed, but a mature conversation solves a lot of issues and avoids many others.
 

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I'm on prescription medication that makes it very difficult to reach orgasm, aka "cum".

Takes a really long time and sometimes doesn't happen at all.

Ladies, if a guy IS able to get it up and please you, but has a difficult time ejaculating, would this be a huge turn off?

Short answer. .. no.
 

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Who cares, honestly, guys often don't give a shit about whether a woman cums or not, they're just in it to get theirs.

Damn, I think that's a pretty jaded statement. I'd think most guys are at LEAST moderately concerned with the woman cumming or at least enjoying herself. At the end of the day the majority of our success is measured by the pleasure she received.
 

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it would frustrate me if my man couldn't get off. it's important to me that the guy finish. it's an element of satisfaction for me to know that he's gotten something out of it as well.

I totally agree with this ^. If I knew he was on some type of medication, I think I'd understand though. I'd probably be way more concerned about his health and the reason for the medication. Honestly if a guy prematurely ejaculates occasionally it's kind of flattering and an ego boost :) definitely not all the time but once in a while isn't a bad thing as far as I'm concerned.
 

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Who cares, honestly, guys often don't give a shit about whether a woman cums or not, they're just in it to get theirs.

Im sorry you have been with guys like that but for some of us that couldn't be further from the truth. I am much more concerned with pleasing my woman and don't even THINK about myself until I have satisfied her completely....MULTIPLE times

As for the question......I often have this problem and have yet to meet a woman that DIDN'T have a problem with it
 

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This is a psychological problem (had it) I read a book called "male problems" by:Bernie Ziberguild. It really helped though my wife thought it was weird. It may be out of print but check Amazon. They often have books that are hard to get. It only works if you do the exercises and don't give. The exercises work by changing your habits and thoughts. Many men develop poor, incorrect, counterproductive masturbation habits that cause them to lock-up in real sex preventing any satisfaction or pleasure physically a visit with a sex therapist or psychologist would also might be in order. This problem isn't an easy one to conquer because it involves sex inhibitions and preconceived ideas. Don't give up. Results are slow to come sometimes and can stretch into months don't loose patience.