Are Great Lovers Born or Made?

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Born...then made better.

You've got to start with a certain level of empathy and sensitivity to others' needs and feelings.

Beyond that, practice makes perfect.

I don't believe you can turn a brute into a Casanova without his cooperation.
 

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I think we all can say that we are better today than our 1st clumsy time in the back seat of a chevy with Betty Lou Rotten Crotch in high school.

Nowadays I can usually locate my discarded underwear without too much searching. (I was never very good at that in high school. Of course, in my defense, I'll say the light was seldom good!)
 

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Somebody taught Eddie Van Halen how to play guitar, and Michael Jordan how to play basketball. If you really have the desire to be a great lover, and you're patient and more importantly have a patient teacher, you can learn to make the earth move.

That said, Mozart practically came out of the womb composing symphonies. But I think sexual prodigies still need to be told they're great in the sack to truly develop the confidence it takes to make someone a great lover.