I don't think one can be born gay, maybe with a certain probability of turning gay later in life due to his early environment, but not initially gay. I believe this for two reasons. First of all, if you believe in natural selection, which if you don't, don't even bother typing a response go get a science book and familiarize yourself with modern science cause you're an idiot, than you believe that all animals, including humans, are born with the biological imperative to reproduce. To be gay means that you don't have this imperative, and in my mind that can only come about as a choice as it goes against millions of years of evolution. Secondly, if being gay was entirely decided by one's genes, then in cases of twins where one twin is gay, the other one would have to be gay and this simply is not true. Having taken a course on the subject, i learned that this is typically true of slightly less than 50% of cases, meaning more often than not, only one twin is gay. To me, that's solid proof that one cannot be born gay. There has to be some sort of incident or series of incidents that causes one to become gay. What seems really disturbing to me is the guys on this site who admit that they are gay or "turned gay" because of a small penis. You know, the guys who in posts say that they've accepted their roles in life. To me that's just dumb, because you could be a nice guy, sucessful, normal in every way, but to think that you don't deserve a normal life because your penis is smaller than average is nuts. Anyway, until a gay gene is found by scientists, which I don't think they ever will, I will go on believing that it is ultimately a choice.