Are 'hotter' women better in bed?

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For the purposes of this question, when I say 'hot' I mean 'conventionally hot', personally I like curves up to and beyond the point where most guys say "too fat" and have a fetish for women who wear no makeup.

I'm saying 'conventionally hot' is no more than a US8/UK10, maybe going up to US10/UK12 if she's tall, dresses to impress guys, takes time over hair and makeup. Basically the kind of woman a guy likes to have if he wants to impress as many other guys as possible.

Are women like that likely to be better in bed?

In my experience it seems almost inversely true.
 

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i think everyone has their type. what you find attractive, other may not and there is nothing wrong with that.
i'm short, small chested, wear no make-up, and most days hair is in a pony tail - my husband thinks i'm the most beautiful woman.
it curves do it for you go for it..."hot" does not make a woman "better" or "worse" in bed. if you want HOT SEX you need a connection with one another.... just a thought?
maybe guys see it differently -
 

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i think everyone has their type. what you find attractive, other may not and there is nothing wrong with that.
i'm short, small chested, wear no make-up, and most days hair is in a pony tail - my husband thinks i'm the most beautiful woman.
it curves do it for you go for it..."hot" does not make a woman "better" or "worse" in bed. if you want HOT SEX you need a connection with one another.... just a thought?
maybe guys see it differently -

This.
 

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No.

No correlation between looks and the quality of the sex.

That's based on a random sample of 50 partners, some head turners and others no-one would give second glance to.

If anything, an emotional connection means far more - and a shared sense of humour goes a long way too...
 

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I dont think so....Ive had "chunky" women who blew my mind in bed and gorgeous girls who didn't seem to know what to do....and vice versa....it's all about emotional connection....if you both get each other off....then what difference does looks make?
 

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I don't know about the original question. The hottest women I ever had was an swimsuit model for tuner shows. And looking back on it she was average in bed if it was just skill. I thing her looks made up for it. The best and I am talking about a 20 on a scale of 1-10 was avg looking. 5'8" tight skinny body A cup tits and less than averag face. Bet our sex was marathon levels over 3 hours every time. She was by far the bet in bed but no where close to the top in looks
 

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No.

No correlation between looks and the quality of the sex.

That's based on a random sample of 50 partners, some head turners and others no-one would give second glance to.

If anything, an emotional connection means far more - and a shared sense of humour goes a long way too...
very true
 

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Yes. The more attracted to a woman I am, the better the sex was. The more physically fit the woman is, the better the sex was. All other things being equal, of course. That is to say, there must be an emotional connection between man and woman, and both parties must be enthusiastic and passionate.
 

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I dont know about that....I prefer women with a little meat on their bones...the skinny ones don't do much for me. but a pretty face....can make me hard as rock very quickly. but it still doesnt mean shes good in bed...
 

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I think they all have the same puss lol.. Tightness matters ..

The difference will come from their willingness to do certain things in bed and actually liking to do these things which means they will work harder at it.

I am more concern about the attitude of conventional hot women, I don't think I would enjoy sex with a woman I don't like completely, and the attitude of some hot women can be a turn off.

Happiness outside the bedroom means more happiness in the bed room.
 

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i think everyone has their type. what you find attractive, other may not and there is nothing wrong with that.
i'm short, small chested, wear no make-up, and most days hair is in a pony tail - my husband thinks i'm the most beautiful woman.
it curves do it for you go for it..."hot" does not make a woman "better" or "worse" in bed. if you want HOT SEX you need a connection with one another.... just a thought?
maybe guys see it differently -

I asked because i've had a couple of girlfriends that drew admiring comments. My ex wife was petite, athletic, cute. Another was a similar size but curvier in the ways black girls often are. Guys made comments about about both of them to me many times over the years. Both seemed to not even like sex after a while and used it as some kind of reward system, both assumed they were great fucks too.

Possibly the best fuck I ever had was overweight, wore no makeup, glasses (never got on with contacts), had very short hair, never dressed up and was described by my best friend as looking like a 'fat lesbian'. Don't get me wrong, I thought she was incredibly hot, think Christina Hendricks' body in the fifth season of Mad Men but with a less stunning (though still cute) face, short hair, glasses and a filthy smile. The other candidates for 'best fuck' were also unconventionally attractive to say the least.

I was trying to not make this thread about 'what is attractive' though, more about the kind of woman you could describe as 'hot' when describing her without having to know about the other guy's taste in woman.

By the way, you sound great, kind of like my ex wife when I met her, before she became a born again bimbo.
 
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I dont think so....Ive had "chunky" women who blew my mind in bed and gorgeous girls who didn't seem to know what to do....and vice versa....it's all about emotional connection....if you both get each other off....then what difference does looks make?

This sure corroborates my experience.
Can't judge a book by it's cover.
:biggrin1:
 

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I asked because i've had a couple of girlfriends that drew admiring comments. My ex wife was petite, athletic, cute. Another was a similar size but curvier in the ways black girls often are. Guys made comments about about both of them to me many times over the years. Both seemed to not even like sex after a while and used it as some kind of reward system, both assumed they were great fucks too.

Possibly the best fuck I ever had was overweight, wore no makeup, glasses (never got on with contacts), had very short hair, never dressed up and was described by my best friend as looking like a 'fat lesbian'. Don't get me wrong, I thought she was incredibly hot, think Christina Hendricks' body in the fifth season of Mad Men but with a less stunning (though still cute) face, short hair, glasses and a filthy smile. The other candidates for 'best fuck' were also unconventionally attractive to say the least.

I was trying to not make this thread about 'what is attractive' though, more about the kind of woman you could describe as 'hot' when describing her without having to know about the other guy's taste in woman.

By the way, you sound great, kind of like my ex wife when I met her, before she became a born again bimbo.

Sounds to me like you were hooking up with the wrong women...
 
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For the purposes of this question, when I say 'hot' I mean 'conventionally hot', personally I like curves up to and beyond the point where most guys say "too fat" and have a fetish for women who wear no makeup.

I'm saying 'conventionally hot' is no more than a US8/UK10, maybe going up to US10/UK12 if she's tall, dresses to impress guys, takes time over hair and makeup. Basically the kind of woman a guy likes to have if he wants to impress as many other guys as possible.

Are women like that likely to be better in bed?

In my experience it seems almost inversely true.

Completely varies I feel. It takes a guy to lead the way to really bring out the best in girls though. Better in bed will vary, most of the time- I like super feminine girls that embrace their sexually by being submissive. For some guys, 'good in bed' involves the girl being super aggressive- which I'm not usually a fan of.

my 2 cents
 

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No, one's "skill in bed" has nothing to do with their physical appearance, which is largely attributed for by genetics and diet/exercise regime.