Are Men Born Casanova's?

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Just curious as I always wanted to be one, I'm not you're typical straight guy I love lesbian porn not sure if this has brainwashed me into wanting to make love to women or not. i've overheard women say I'm a bit of a Don juan or ladies man. However probably not a real one, apparently a true ladies man is rare. Any man can learn to flirt but being a true seducer is likely something a man was born with .If I really loved women they would probably be all over me all the time. Also are most Don juans well hung? I'm only average in penis size but heard the majority of ladies man have big dicks. Thanks
 

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Who knows? Some guys are just immediately more successful with women than others. Some guys women warm up to more slowly, and others women avoid like the plague. In my experience, men who are more ‘successful’ with women, actually like them. Really like them, sex or no sex, they just like the company of women. But that’s my impression.

And do they have bigger penises? Nope. Some do, some don’t. Penis size has very little to do with anything.
 

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Casanova, Don Juan, Lothario and the like are denigrating terms in women’s eyes.

we don’t give a fig what you fap to.

size matters not if it’s all you focus upon.

I don’t mess with assholes who treat women like scores, so I have no idea if they have big sick. I know they ARE big dicks.
 

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I'm not you're typical straight guy I love lesbian porn not sure if this has brainwashed me into wanting to make love to women or not

How does watching lesbian porn brainwash a straight man into wanting to make love to women? I’m just curious
 

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How does watching lesbian porn brainwash a straight man into wanting to make love to women? I’m just curious
Because men are totes gay unless they get “brainwashed” into doing wimminz.
 
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Most guys like seeing women get fucked in porn not watching women slowly caress each other yes I'm strange but some men enjoy softcore lesbian porn like me. In fact I believe women are more likely to watch it than men. It sounds like referring to someone as a Don juan or casanova is offensive so ladies man or player is better?
 
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Softcore porn bore the fuck outta me. "Lady's men" general not something I wanna mess with. I imagine they have variety o their dick size just like men world over. Most female on female porn is boring/cringe to me (so basically mainstream female/female porn). Am introvert and whole bunch o other thing, so some person that flirts to appeal to mainstream personality not gonna jive with me.

Dude who are confident and sincere charm with people, do no think "born" that way, but nurtured/raised to be like. Dude who are "charming" to get in pants aren't actual charming and are gross.

Watchin' main stream hetero porn did no brain wash me into that being my fave thing :scream: Queer n kinky preferred, please
 

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Most guys like seeing women get fucked in porn not watching women slowly caress each other yes I'm strange but some men enjoy softcore lesbian porn like me. In fact I believe women are more likely to watch it than men. It sounds like referring to someone as a Don juan or casanova is offensive so ladies man or player is better?
Player is just a more current way of saying ass who uses people.
 

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Most guys like seeing women get fucked in porn not watching women slowly caress each other yes I'm strange but some men enjoy softcore lesbian porn like me. In fact I believe women are more likely to watch it than men. It sounds like referring to someone as a Don juan or casanova is offensive so ladies man or player is better?
In mainstream porn, and “girl-on-girl” is mainstream is entirely oriented to male gaze. So, the women are acting. Acting is fantasy, the director/producer/creator’s fantasy or one they know sells.
It’s marketing at its most crass.
On a viewer POV, it’s assumed heavy, consistent viewers either simply enjoy being a voyeur, imagine themselves as one actor, or are watching for particular acts, kinks or fetishes.
 

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I remember reading this book "Swoon Great Seducers and Why Women Love Them" and the author says a real ladies man is quite rare. Some men just have certain personality traits that make them extremely attractive to women that can't be learnt or mimicked. A lot of men cope with they're lack of success with women by believing they can become a "pua" which will turn them into a chick magnet or imitating "alpha" behaviour but they're never compare to men who are naturally great seducers.

Those sound like rather limiting beliefs to live your life by. Just saying. Just because you read a book and someone said something in it ... well, you can see where I'm going :)

The idea that only a chosen few luck out and are born a certain way? And the rest of you guys have to suffer by going through the motions of imitative behavior? There are some truly awesome people out there, if you don't give up after the first few clowns that may cross your path first. :) I'm on the same page as previous posters. False charm is unlikely to work on people worth getting to know.