are men too feminized?

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Why men are in trouble - CNN.com

This is a enlightening article about why men are in trouble in today's world and may be why they are becoming more "feminized".

What few bastions of masculinity are left in the world where masculinity is championed other than sports and perhaps the construction and manufacturing industries both in rapid decline today?

even sports are becoming pussified, its damn near illegal to hit someone hard in football, if you look at a ref wrong in basketball you get a foul, it seems like everything is just getting softer in society and im not sure its a good thing

i remember when i was playing pee-wee sports and seeing the kids getting sportsmanship trophies, and kids would even get trophies for just trying. i think this is adding to it all
 

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2012 a new age. men are twinks. women fight in public and stand with their legs wide apart.
role reversal is on the way in.

Like getting pregant and forced to wear a burka? :biggrin1:

I think that society is getting more humanised instead of being "genderised" which means that its not forcing people of doing what is related to their gender,nowadays people tend to do what is related to their tastes and capacities as humans having the right to being equally treated and been seen as a human not male nor female, it's the future, I call it the third gender.
 
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im sure your girl wouldn't call me a kid, kid :wink:

lol Great come back. Is this the part where i make you give me your lunch money?

In all seriousness though. I'm pretty sure that a good amount of the men you call feminine could bro you under a table. As in....women flock to them like they are the last men on earth. I really don't have to name them do i? Or i'll just name one. As in...the artist formally none as. Who i'm sure has slept with a large amount of women. So yeah you might want to rethink your ideals.

Also, there's a stark difference between being feminine and being a pussy. Didn't we already learn from carson daly what statements like yours mean? I give respect to those who express who they are as individuals because thats who they are. Even when it isn't popular. Those who need to degrade other people to make themselves feel better well aren't they the real pussies?
 
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lol Great come back. Is this the part where i make you give me your lunch money?

In all seriousness though. I'm pretty sure that a good amount of the men you call feminine could bro you under a table. As in....women flock to them like they are the last men on earth. I really don't have to name them do i? Or i'll just name one. As in...the artist formally none as. Who i'm sure has slept with a large amount of women. So yeah you might want to rethink your ideals.

lol i've never been a bully young man

and that is true, but just because someone is artistic like prince doesn't make them feminine

and using a rich and famous person as an example is kind of unrealistic, if a guy is rich and famous he can get just about any girl he wants even if they look like the grinch lol
 

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lol i've never been a bully young man

and that is true, but just because someone is artistic like prince doesn't make them feminine

and using a rich and famous person as an example is kind of unrealistic, if a guy is rich and famous he can get just about any girl he wants even if they look like the grinch lol

Oh really? So any woman can be bought?
 

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what is bothersome for me, rather than adjusting the cultural role/expectations of "male" to find purpose and satisfaction in their lives, a certain class of biological tripods are more interested in externalizing their 'male-fail'. settling for an easy scapegoat of social advancement of women is sad, and self-defeating.
:frown:

men aren't being feminized.
infantilized is the word you're looking for:smile:


eta: the above grumble is only directed at a small portion of human males. the rest of man-land, i love ya. from those cute lil hair at the back of ya neck curls, to manly hands, to ya sense of humor to ya being backbone solid dudes. y'all get more shit for your gender than you deserve, and not near enough praise for ya each individual awesomeness.
*hugs ya chromosomes*
what makes you think she's up to my standards? :rolleyes:


:eek:fftopic:

for true?

i figured your only standard was something along the lines of "willing to tolerate my company."
 
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what is bothersome for me, rather than adjusting the cultural role/expectations of "male" to find purpose and satisfaction in their lives, a certain class of biological tripods are more interested in externalizing their 'male-fail'. settling for an easy scapegoat of social advancement of women is sad, and self-defeating.
:frown:

men aren't being feminized.
infantilized is the word you're looking for:smile:

Oh which Bjen2848 is a prime example.

Also, if he does think woman can be bought. Then i have 2 bucks and a free night to which (by his own admission) his mom/sister/aunt would love to hear about.

Oh and just to clear this up, Bjen2848 you never said how much your mom/sis/aunt would cost so i just adjusted for inflation...also your lack of maturity. Cause apple....well you know.
 
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Also, there's a stark difference between being feminine and being a pussy. Didn't we already learn from carson daly what statements like yours mean? I give respect to those who express who they are as individuals because thats who they are. Even when it isn't popular. Those who need to degrade other people to make themselves feel better well aren't they the real pussies?

this is very true, those who are proud of who they are and are unapologetic about it are always attractive, that's not being a pussy at all

and are you implying that i am degrading others? if so, how?
 

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this is very true, those who are proud of who they are and are unapologetic about it are always attractive, that's not being a pussy at all

and are you implying that i am degrading others? if so, how?

Do i look like a tutor? If you don't understand by now then i'm pretty sure there's a lot of other things you aren't getting either.
 

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Oh really? So any woman can be bought?

kind of

if you think about it, when you take a women out on a date, you have to spend x amount of money for gas depending on how far she lives, you gotta spend money for a dinner and maybe a movie or whatever it is you're doing for the evening

and yeah everyone knows when you're a famous artist or a professional athlete, all the money gives you access to more women than before, yeah they're not of much quality and they're gold diggers, but it is what it is
 

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Do i look like a tutor? If you don't understand by now then i'm pretty sure there's a lot of other things you aren't getting either.

lol, i never claimed you were a tutor man, why are you getting off topic and trying to pick a fight? if you're accusing me of doing something the least you could do is grow a pair and defend what you're saying instead of just talking out of the side of your mouth (keyboard?)



maybe we all can actually talk about the topic at hand instead of little side piss contests :cool:
 

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kind of

if you think about it, when you take a women out on a date, you have to spend x amount of money for gas depending on how far she lives, you gotta spend money for a dinner and maybe a movie or whatever it is you're doing for the evening

and yeah everyone knows when you're a famous artist or a professional athlete, all the money gives you access to more women than before, yeah they're not of much quality and they're gold diggers, but it is what it is

Kind of? Is that back tracking i sense? Do you have a righteous opinion about women or not? One second your implying that all women can be bought then its kind of. Do you have a strong opinion or are you a confused, hurt little child that thinks since one or more women did this then they all do?

An acceptable answer would be...no i do not have a strong opinion about women i just have my ideals. Ideals that have been proven wrong just out of sheer common sense.

I would speak on the idea of men being femitized (not really a word) or whatever but i doubt you even understand that that one word cannot encompass the entirety of what is being talked about. Everyone always has their different definitions of whatever word is being discussed. Not only that but what you think is feminine is clearly placed in a negative view point. Which means everything that comes out of your keyboard will be negative. I would explain how real conversations go but i doubt you have the capacity at the moment.

Just to let you know, you aren't the only one. Everyone has a moment in their life where they blame another group of people for their problems. You are no different. When people realize that everyone else is not at fault...that is what is called maturity. And you need to get some....fast.
 
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what is bothersome for me, rather than adjusting the cultural role/expectations of "male" to find purpose and satisfaction in their lives, a certain class of biological tripods are more interested in externalizing their 'male-fail'. settling for an easy scapegoat of social advancement of women is sad, and self-defeating.
:frown:

men aren't being feminized.
infantilized is the word you're looking for:smile:


eta: the above grumble is only directed at a small portion of human males. the rest of man-land, i love ya. from those cute lil hair at the back of ya neck curls, to manly hands, to ya sense of humor to ya being backbone solid dudes. y'all get more shit for your gender than you deserve, and not near enough praise for ya each individual awesomeness.
*hugs ya chromosomes*


for true?

i figured your only standard was something along the lines of "willing to tolerate my company."


i have no problems with the social advancement of women, i'm not blaming women for anything... believe it or not, my most attractive quality in a woman for me is someone who is just as ambitious, if not more than i am. if guys are becoming softer, we can't blame women for that, we have to look in the mirror to see the issue if there is one

and no, again you assume wrong ... i actually turn down more women then i let in my bed :rolleyes:
 

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Kind of? Is that back tracking i sense? Do you have a righteous opinion about women or not? One second your implying that all women can be bought then its kind of. Do you have a strong opinion or are you a confused, hurt little child that thinks since one or more women did this then they all do?

An acceptable answer would be...no i do not have a strong opinion about women i just have my ideals. Ideals that have been proven wrong just out of sheer common sense.

Just to let you know, you aren't the only one. Everyone has a moment in their life where they blame another group of people for their problems. You are no different. When people realize that everyone else is not at fault...that is what is called maturity. And you need to get some....fast.

no, im not back tracking at all, my answer is "kind of" because i believe that is the case in some situations

yeah if i walk up to a chick with $100 asking her to give me a blow job, i'd probably get slapped in the face (or getting my penis sucked depending on outside factors)

but if i am a multi million dollar musician, i bet the kind of effort i would need to put in to get laid for the average woman would be a lot less because of my fame, i hope you're not THAT naive to think the world doesn't work this way

how do you think someone like flavor flav or donald trump get any kind of ass? they're obnoxious as hell and probably annoying... but they have fat pockets (flavor flav isn't even that rich) so its something that counter acts the negative for them

and idk where you're going with the rest of your little tirade, why are you so obsessed with trying to cause some drama dude? ... did you have a bad day or something lol
 

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i have no problems with the social advancement of women, i'm not blaming women for anything... believe it or not, my most attractive quality in a woman for me is someone who is just as ambitious, if not more than i am. if guys are becoming softer, we can't blame women for that, we have to look in the mirror to see the issue if there is one

and no, again you assume wrong ... i actually turn down more women then i let in my bed :rolleyes:

sure, sweetpea. *pets Bjen*

did you read the article you linked to? i mean "are women feminizing men" doesn't really yoke men with much culpability. :confused:
 

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sure, sweetpea. *pets Bjen*

did you read the article you linked to? i mean "are women feminizing men" doesn't really yoke men with much culpability. :confused:

i did

and i disagree with the article that it is women's fault. yeah guys might act this way over women, but that is the guy's fault for doing so

just because i link an article doesn't mean i have to agree with what the person is saying
 

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Why is that men with the maturity of 13 year olds (and world views to match) constantly ask these stupid questions?

Then they start calling everyone pussies and women sluts and it takes off