Are most guys really just not "hung"?

[B_retracted]

I go to a very busy gym and so I see a lot of cock and I have to say that I've yet to see one there was that above average. Most are average at best. Like buttons at worst. Elsewhere, I've only seen one cock that I'd call big.

You'll find that, on here like everywhere else, most people are cocksucking liars living in their own dreamworld.

 

[solexes]

In all reality - no - not many guys are hung. In my personal relationship experience (age 21-32) and all the men I've been with (no I aint THAT big of a slut - yet - I've been around the block) I can count on my hand exactly how many guys have met my size - or have been bigger.

BTW - I am 8x6 (honest measurements - not bloated).

Dan (First guy I was with) 10.5x7 --- nuff said.

Scott (I refer to him as my twin - as in body, looks, and cocks we were the same - only he was a blond - I have brown hair). - He was 8x6

Garth (sweetheart of a guy - 15 years my senior) and I was thicker by 1/4 inch or so - but he was longer by 1/4 inch. - He was 8.5 x 5.5

Scott2 (Same length - slightly thinner). 8x5.5

Dean (same length and slightly thicker). 8x6.25

The average guy I was with was about 6 inches. Several fell into the smaller than 6 (about three - one being an ex) - and a few were in the 7" range.


I'd say that these are the "big ones" out of many. The rest - were average.

And as to whether or not it's better to be hung....FEW guys will let me top them - which is disconcerting. I'd say only 1/4 of all btm guys were able to meet the challenge - the rest - upon reality couldn't / wouldn't take it. So I found other ways of having fun ;-)

I'll tell ya - after a while I got tired of "you ain't puttin THAT in ME!" Right after them boasting about how many big ones they'd taken....

 

[Ms.Teacher]

Size really doesn't matter becausethere's so much to every aspect of lovemaking that it becomes a drop in the ocean compared to everything else you have to get right in order to make the experience pleasant. There are lots of guys on here who think size is the be all end all of everything - it becomes a sort of competition to them, whereas the scant amount of (real) women on here alone should tell you that it ranks pretty damn low on the spectrum of desirable traits in a man.

Do you really think the hung men on here are getting PMs from hot and horny women all the time because of their size? They're not. The way to appeal to someone else is nearly always through their heart and/or mind, even if that person happens to be on a site like this.

To be honest, I think size is just one of those things like money, where everyone wants it, but if they have it, they're kind of like "oh well, ho hum." I read a post by a guy on here the other day who was stressing out about his height. It's the same sort of thing. But it doesn't matter, none of it does. Height, weight, looks, income, cock, none of it. All there is in life is love and chemistry.

^^^^^What he said.^^^^^

 

[B_Rob15]

Seriously, all fantasy bullshit aside, how many guys are "hung" and how many are not? If you don't consider someone "big", how would you describe it to someone else (i.e. "he was small", "he was average", etc.)?

I ask because it seems us guys are designed to think that we're smaller than others. I am like 6.5 x 5.25, statistically i am above average (or worst case scenario, average) yet I feel that girls with any experience who see my penis will describe me as small.

This is why I am so curious as to how many guys will be considered "big". I feel that every guy can relate with these thoughts too, no matter what size they are. I just want to hear honest answers, really.

If you are average or above average i suppose you could be considered "hung", below average, not so "hung".

 

[1BiGG1]

Size really doesn't matter because there's so much to every aspect of lovemaking that it becomes a drop in the ocean compared to everything else you have to get right in order to make the experience pleasant. There are lots of guys on here who think size is the be all end all of everything - it becomes a sort of competition to them, whereas the scant amount of (real) women on here alone should tell you that it ranks pretty damn low on the spectrum of desirable traits in a man.

Do you really think the hung men on here are getting PMs from hot and horny women all the time because of their size? They're not. The way to appeal to someone else is nearly always through their heart and/or mind, even if that person happens to be on a site like this.

To be honest, I think size is just one of those things like money, where everyone wants it, but if they have it, they're kind of like "oh well, ho hum." I read a post by a guy on here the other day who was stressing out about his height. It's the same sort of thing. But it doesn't matter, none of it does. Height, weight, looks, income, cock, none of it. All there is in life is love and chemistry.

That was a great post!

This forum seems loaded with “the grass is greener” types … if only they would worry more about who they are instead of what they are not happiness would likely follow.

 

[rope9839]

How would somebody describe a penis that wasn't small or large? Simple: they wouldn't. An unremarkable penis goes unremarked; seldom does someone volunteer "I just had sex with a guy who's penis was sooo average"... If someone were asked to describe the experience they'd probably recount how they felt, how the overall experience was; no mention of size. And lo, that's how most women describe sex. Infer from that what you will.

This nails it. If they don't really bring it up, it is because it really doesn't warrant it. I also think women won't really touch the size issue on their own, as they know there is too much potential for hurt if they guy doesn't take it right.

 

[Cobalt Blue]

there are more means to view "hung" men than there were 20 yrs ago, so we get conditioned by the media. so we see more "hung" men and view our endowment as not so big, not so great. when actually those huge "hung" men are very few and far between.

Exactly. With nearly universal access to the Internet, an inverse process of natural selection takes place. Although large cocks are extremely rare, a Martian remotely viewing Earth's Internet from outer space would assume that the average homo sapien penis was over eight inches in length and six in circumference. There are few photos of average penes on the web, whereas those pictures of the monsters are exchanged, distributed and duplicated on countless sites, for instance, this one. So a casual viewer - your girlfriend perhaps, seeing this plethora of monster cocks might well assume that the ones she has come across in real life are smaller than the norm. Likewise our hypothetical Martian would also receive a skewed idea of normal human attractiveness if he should perchance pick up an issue of Vogue. Again, an inverse process of natural selection is taking place, whereby the rarest [in real life] becomes the most common [on the Internet]

 

[rope9839]

Exactly. With nearly universal access to the Internet, an inverse process of natural selection takes place. Although large cocks are extremely rare, a Martian remotely viewing Earth's Internet from outer space would assume that the average homo sapien penis was over eight inches in length and six in circumference. There are few photos of average penes on the web, whereas those pictures of the monsters are exchanged, distributed and duplicated on countless sites, for instance, this one. So a casual viewer - your girlfriend perhaps, seeing this plethora of monster cocks might well assume that the ones she has come across in real life are smaller than the norm. Likewise our hypothetical Martian would also receive a skewed idea of normal human attractiveness if he should perchance pick up an issue of Vogue. Again, an inverse process of natural selection is taking place, whereby the rarest [in real life] becomes the most common [on the Internet]

While I doubt average sizes have changed much over recent history. For all the reasons you list, I would guess more guys than ever feel small. It would be really hard to be convinced a 5 inch cock was worth it if all you saw was cocks on the net and in porn.

Since most of the cocks I see in person are in a locker room situation, I would guess that a guy has to have about six inches flaccid to really get my attention. I don't see a lot of these. So, no, most men don't seem to be hung.

 

[ScottishLad]

I have not seen your other posts on this subject, as referenced, but nevertheless, I think your question is a very simple one to answer. No, in the general population, most guys are not notably hung – defining “hung” as having a penis appreciably larger than average.

In my opinion, I would say that “appreciably” larger than average starts at about 7 inches long and that “seriously” well hung starts at about 8 inches long. It is not exactly uncommon to find guys with dicks between 7 and 8 inches, although their penises are large enough to be special. Having 8 inches or more is quite uncommon and is very special. If a guy sports 9 inches or more, we’re talking about some very seriously heavy-duty equipment. Yes, there is a fair amount of bullshit on this site, and in reality, having 10 inches or more – although there are few out there – is truly phenomenal.

And we all know that Firestick is sporting heavy-duty equipment! Fuck you are incredible!