Are most straight men secretly (or openly) aroused by the sight of a huge penis or large ejaculation

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My fiancée is recovering from surgery and she asked me for some help masturbating. I told her to put on some porn that will get her as aroused as possible. I’ve known for some time that she enjoys squirting videos, but I realized that most of these only feature women and my fiancée is at least 90% straight and doesn’t even think of those videos as lesbian.

In that past I’ve definitely admired solo big cock images and enjoyed watching a guy blow an impressive load. Now I prefer if there’s a lady there with the guy. A popular straight porn category is handjob, I propose that the arousal for this category comes from watching the cock and cumshot and only a little from that fact that there’s a woman touching him.

So I decided to put it to the test, I came on here and reddit’s /r/massivecock and /r/grower and got started downloading solo content that I found arousing. I say download because a lot of the sites and even this forum has a lot stuff I’m really not into at all so I waded through it all and downloaded what I liked. This meant mostly closeups of huge cocks growing or cumming. Self sucking was a turn off but interesting.

I was able to successfully masturbate with just that content, it was fairly easy. I think I was able to be aroused and cum for the same reasons my fiancée was: empathy and fantasy. I fantasize that I have the giant cock and imagine how good it feels, in fact sometimes I let myself fully fall into the fantasy and somehow my mind tricks itself into my own cock feeling thicker and longer. And when watching cumshots it’s the same thing, I put myself in that role and feel what they must be feeling. I honestly think that most straight men probably feel the same but either won’t say so publicly or more likely are trapped in their own mind and have convinced themselves that there’s no way they could possibly like it because they are definitely not gay and only gay men like to look at cocks. In reality they love to look at cocks, every titfuck, blowjob or handjob is all about looking at what’s being done to the cock.

Thoughts on this?

I am somewhat similar in that I really get turned on watching a big cock being jacked and big cum shots. But I prefer it with a woman versus male solo. I tend to fantasize about my cock being in place of the one on screen. One of my favorites is Danny D for his huge cock and explosive cum shots!
 
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Well there's a reason why porn features generally good looking muscular or lean men with huge dicks.
I assumed that was to entertain the women, just like tits are there to entertain the men
 
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Well I mean also no one wants to see ugly people fucking.
I dont think anyone would disagree with you there! Im more of a tease man myself than full on in your face fucking
 
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Though there is this weird site called The Minion which I once came across.

It features this fat hairy man eating and fucking very attractive women.
But at least the women were hot, probably to make the uglies feel like they got a chance
 
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Frankly the pictures were rather disgusting so I quickly closed the browser windows lol.
Yeah sounds pretty nasty to be honest, id probably be setting fire to my hard drive after that lol
 

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No. Why would they be? It's like asking if gay guys are secretly turned on by giant squirting vaginas. :confused:

Funny how no one ever seems to ask questions like this in the opposite direction? :rolleyes:
 

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Yes, I've observed men get physically and mentally aroused and become obsessed with my huge dick after seeing it or even hearing about it. Also, I am very frequently giving exhibitionistic reveal --> jerking my cock --> to the internet and usually the watchers are really turned on by my girth and size and when I measure.
Also, Their favorite is when I finish by covering the webcam with strong jets of cum...I see and hear them just explode.
 

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Of course men get aroused by large dicks. Why else would male pornstars all be hung? When you consider the vast majority of porn is consumed by men. That's what they wanna see. Do the math

This is an inaccurate reading of what's happening. It's the woman's ENGAGEMENT with a big dick that's arousing, NOT the dick itself. Male porn stars are hung the same way action movie stars are handsome and have big muscles. It's the exaggerated masculine image that the viewer wants to identify with, and identify AS in the fantasy. Straight men like to imagine themselves being lusted after by super hot women because of their giant dicks the same way they like to imagine themselves as Superman saving Lois lane or Rambo rage killing all the bad guys. The big dick is an object of aspirational identification, not desire.

Straight men aren't turned on by Rambo, they wanna BE him. Peter North is the Vin Disel/Sylvester Stalone of fucking.

Also, the reality is that the image of the dude in straight porn is most often greatly minimized with close-ups and shots centered on the woman. Even if the sight of a big dick 'arouses' a straight man, it's not because he's attracted to the dick or the person attached to it, it's because of the images association with sexual activity in general. A giant hard dick is a signal, not a desire.

If you're actually heterosexual, you aren't going to have any significant desire for men. If you do, then by definition, you are some degree of bisexual. The 'lines' of this stuff aren't really all that blurry. But folks really want these distinctions to be 'murky' out of a desire for the unavailable, and the desire to dodge stigma.

Again, we rarely see or hear speculation about gay men's secret desire of giant tits and wet pussy. Because we have an easier time accepting that for the wishful thinking it is. And probably because straight women are smart enough to keep that delusional thinking to themselves. :emoji_smirk:
 

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This is an inaccurate reading of what's happening. It's the woman's ENGAGEMENT with a big dick that's arousing, NOT the dick itself. Male porn stars are hung the same way action movie stars are handsome and have big muscles. It's the exaggerated masculine image that the viewer wants to identify with, and identify AS in the fantasy. Straight men like to imagine themselves being lusted after by super hot women because of their giant dicks the same way they like to imagine themselves as Superman saving Lois lane or Rambo rage killing all the bad guys. The big dick is an object of aspirational identification, not desire.

Straight men aren't turned on by Rambo, they wanna BE him. Peter North is the Vin Disel/Sylvester Stalone of fucking.

Also, the reality is that the image of the dude in straight porn is most often greatly minimized with close-ups and shots centered on the woman. Even if the sight of a big dick 'arouses' a straight man, it's not because he's attracted to the dick or the person attached to it, it's because of the images association with sexual activity in general. A giant hard dick is a signal, not a desire.

If you're actually heterosexual, you aren't going to have any significant desire for men. If you do, then by definition, you are some degree of bisexual. The 'lines' of this stuff aren't really all that blurry. But folks really want these distinctions to be 'murky' out of a desire for the unavailable, and the desire to dodge stigma.

Again, we rarely see or hear speculation about gay men's secret desire of giant tits and wet pussy. Because we have an easier time accepting that for the wishful thinking it is. And probably because straight women are smart enough to keep that delusional thinking to themselves. :emoji_smirk:
Very well put.
 

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Doesnt change the fact that big dicks draw money in porn. Otherwise they wouldnt be used.

Look at pro wrestling. When it was hugely popular, the guys were larger than life. Now its a lot of average sized dudes and like has 1/4 of the audience it used to. Big sells.