Because others don't enjoy those things.I enjoy video games, seafood and basketball. Why?
While on the other hand the things you do not enjoy others do find enjoyable.
I don't think my philosophy suggests that wanting more happiness is the opposite of NOT having happiness or enjoyment. I think that if you want more or greater happiness than you're not truly happy and that other people can only harm you by sapping your energy and eliminating your sense of self. I think the only way to truly be happy is to forsake other people and discover the you that exists outside of your interactions with and the expectations of others.
Point being. Different things make different people happy. What makes you happy is bound to make others not so happy. Visa versa. Some people value things much more highly than others as well. Examples of what people find "true happiness:" Power, Money, Love, Sex, Murder, Music, Art, God, Math, Kind acts, Solitude, Friends and family, Nature,Drugs,Fighting,Learning, and much more. So that said we have a very large variety of people on earth with different likes and dislikes. To say one thing would make someone truly happy is ignorant to that fact.
Now for the underlined part. All of that can be achieved in or out of a relationship. That comes down to the individual. However forsaking people doesn't seem efficient and it seems rather counter productive towards the progression of humanity. Mmmm perhaps many many many years in the future that kind of thinking could be entertained when technology reaches a specific point or we further evolve but as it is now, just no.
I think if it works for you that is fine. :\ sadly you don't have the power to declare who is and isn't truly happy. Especially over the internet when you can't even see how someone in the flesh where you can really see how they live and gauge how they feel.
Is the desire to be in a romantic relationship a form mental weakness? Like you don't have the mental strength to live life on your own, so you need the crutch of another person giving you emotional support?
Do you agree?
As for your question
No. Having a desire in of itself is not a weakness. A desire only becomes a weakness if the person allows said desire to cause harm to them in some manor.
Follow up question. Would being in platonic relationship make you weak? Why or why not?