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There isn't a single friend that has gotten married that I am still in regular contact with. All of them now either have no friends or only a few married couples they see occasionally. My parents included. Neither of my parents have any friends that they hang out with regularly.
All too often we see that someone is completely lost when their spouse dies or even if they get divorced. They have been withdrawn for so long and made that person their entire world.
Why do most married people behave this way? It just doesn't seem wise to put your entire focus on one person. Most rational people would not put all of their money in a single investment. It usually ends in disappointment or disaster. For me I couldn't imagine spending every moment with the same person. It would get dull really quick. My parents are pretty much just roommates at this point. They go to eat together and then stay in different parts of the house the rest of the time. No romance or social life left. I definitely don't want that to be me one day.
All too often we see that someone is completely lost when their spouse dies or even if they get divorced. They have been withdrawn for so long and made that person their entire world.
Why do most married people behave this way? It just doesn't seem wise to put your entire focus on one person. Most rational people would not put all of their money in a single investment. It usually ends in disappointment or disaster. For me I couldn't imagine spending every moment with the same person. It would get dull really quick. My parents are pretty much just roommates at this point. They go to eat together and then stay in different parts of the house the rest of the time. No romance or social life left. I definitely don't want that to be me one day.