Are Sugars Even Real?

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  1. D_Bud Priapist

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    Hey guys and girls,

    So, I must know. . . are sugar daddies / mummas real?
    I would probably freak out if I found myself (somehow) in a sugar relationship. I mean come on, JACKPOT! don't you think?? People buying you all sorts of stuff, looking after you etc, all for a little action on the side, sounds like a sweet deal.

    Has anyone had any experiences involving this type of thing? I won't lie, I'm tempted to sign up to a random 'arrangement' site I found on google. It would be interesting to see where it could lead, if anywhere! Tempting...
     
  2. EmJay

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    hahaha.. can't believe that those sites are real actually. but ofcourse the whole sugar daddy thing is real. There are alot of financially stable men out there (single or in a relationship...mostly the latter) looking for a cute girl they can support in return for some TLC. But sugar mama's..that one I dont know unless your name is Ivana Trump or Hulk Hogan's exwife or something..

    Usually females with some cash behind their names are looking for men with a similar or bigger status. But maybe with women at 50 years old..you will have a bigger chance..but then still 21 years old is a huge age-gap.
     
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    Might have to move to Florida. Isn't that full of oldies? haha
     
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    I won't go into too many details but sadly I found myself in a situation like this about 4 years ago where I was the Sugar Daddy. I own a business and do pretty well. I ended up with a cute young girl pretty much doing any and everything to me and I hooked her up financially. It only lasted about three months and then I shut it down. Have not done it since.
     
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    Yes they are real & the great thing is that you don't have to sign up at a website to get 1.

    The bad side (because there is) happens when you've received millions of dollars in cash & merchandise (cars, house, clothes, etc. etc.) and the guy or gal of your dreams arrives.

    They: A) Learn what it is you've done & refuse to further associate with you.
    B) Stay with you but they are dirt poor & lazy and the sugar daddy/mom took all the stuff back & sued you. 8 children later, you find that your love that you left the S.D for is:
    a)having an affair with your best friend and they give you an STD.
    b)won the lottery, divorced you and is now a Sugar Daddy with conquests far younger than you.
     
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    In this life, nothing is free. Everything has a price - and that price can be financial, material, or emotional.
     
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    The man that will set me up with millions of cash in cars and assets..will have my loyality for the rest of my life hahaha..LOL

    as long as he is sweet and caring ofcourse and not some douchebag believing he owns you..
     
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    I believe they're called glorified hookers.
     
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    The Sugar Daddy/ Mama would be glorified johns.

    The well financed pet is the hooker.
     
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    At thirty two years of age you are a little too young to be a sugardaddy.

    We must find another term to describe your relationship...
     
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    That's the whole point, EmJay. He DOES own you. Do you expect people to give you things for nothing? If so, you'd seen too many Lifetime movies.
     
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    When I was in college I exclusively dated men in their 40's. They were the men I was attracted to both physically and emotionally. It just so happened that they had a lot of money(one was a multi-millionaire) and I didn't have 2 nickels to rub together. I was WELL taken care of and paid for nothing. I suppose one could say they were my sugar daddies. However, they did not own me.
     
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    Schmuck? :eek:

    :lmao:j/k
     
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    Do enlighten me. I was 32 and she was 23. She was an employee so I gave her a paycheck but also paid for all of the extras (shopping, bills, etc.)and in return It was open season sexually. I'm not bragging nor was I proud of it at all. That's why I cut it off so abruptly.

    Let's come up with a different term so that I can label it properly:smile:
     
  16. EmJay

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    He owns shit :biggrin1:..

    Women who feel that they can't live without his money..may feel that way..but if all else failed I would still be able to take care of myself. If I would choose to be with a sugarman and be exclusive to him..its because i choose the lifestyle and him..not because he thinks he owns me.

    Next to that..assets will be signed to my name..no rental bulshit hahaha

    And you are wrong..many guys love taking care of a woman..especially if she makes him feel good or even exclusive..even if they know they are not. She might not get a fully furnished apartment..but other things important to her are covered.

    All the guys are suddenly saying this is prostitution etc etc.. yeah well maybe it is..just like any other kind of arrangement where you give your body in order to get...attention, love..whatever..

    Its always something..we are either sluts for giving it up too fast, too easy or for nothing.. or we are prostitutes because we are enjoying the fruits of the attention given..:rolleyes:

    I have had 3 millionaires come my way in my lifetime willing to set me up. I just couldnt because i wasnt that attracted to them to go for it but for 1 where i did feel the attraction for. I just couldn't deal with the feeling having to share him with his wife..so that was a no for me too. So for me it wouldnt work even if they felt more than willing to accommodate me..


    But as i'm getting older I wonder if i should have been that stupid :wink:
     
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    Not "All" of the guys.
     
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    Indeed it is :wink:

    For every one millionaire who lavishes a boy/girl-toy with pricey trinkets with no strings attached there are many more "comfortably retired" guys who do, in fact, feel that their generosity comes with, at the very least, a fealty on the part of the recipient in return. I've seen many of these set-ups at close range and have yet to find a real partnership of equals; the one with the purse-strings calls both tune, dance and who shall lead.

    But an even more endemic weed down here are young(ish) guys (25-35) who meet someone whom they believe to be stable and suck the very marrow from his bones before moving on to the next sucker. I have met two who fit this general profile and in both cases was greatly distressed when they turned out to be grifters. Their ability to flatter and manipulate are just unbelievable, and I am by no means even "comfortable": I just have a roof over my head and some food in the fridge. I don't even own a car :wink:

    It was a sure sign that something significant had happened in how guys perceive me, and not for the better. The feelings of betrayal were near-total :mad:
     
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    I am sorry sweety..sorry for putting you and other men alike in that corner :redface:

    You are right..not all..:smile:
     
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    If I were enlightened myself I would be glad to oblige.

    I confess that I am hampered by a stereotype where there is at least a decent if not significant age gap between the older man and younger woman. How big a gap? Maybe - old enough to be her father - thus the use of the word daddy.

    You did not even have a double digit age gap and (enjoy the youth while you can) 32 is just a little too young to be a daddy.
    Daddy implies older and old.
    How old?
    Probably at least 40 and definitely experiencing a midlife crisis.
    I usually think at over 50 and requiring viagra.
    Think Hefner.
     
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