Are the size stats true?

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So as a straight guy the only erect penis I've seen in real life is my own. I have zero perspective on how big is big. That's why I've come to you guys.

I imagine gay guys have had a lot more chances to compare. Would you say the stats on size are generally accurate (average is around 5ish inches and 8+ inches is rare)?

I've asked my partner and she said average is 5ish inches and my size (7x5+) is like 1 in 10 or so. She also has a 4x4 dildo which she said was "kind of small".

What have been your experiences?
 
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According to recent non-self-reported research figures and the resulting penis size nomogram (which can be found on google) it is quite true that average size is around the figures mentioned above.
 

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Thank you for your input. So would you also agree that 7+ is like 1 in 10?
1 in 10 is a bit too "rare"... I'd say more 3 out of 10. 8+ is more 1 in 10. 9+ is 1 in 100. Again, in my experience... which includes being a bit of a whore and living in San Francisco for 20 years. :)
 

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1 in 10 is a bit too "rare"... I'd say more 3 out of 10. 8+ is more 1 in 10. 9+ is 1 in 100. Again, in my experience... which includes being a bit of a whore and living in San Francisco for 20 years. :)
Sounds like experience that would give you a pretty good perspective haha.
 

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1 in 10 is a bit too "rare"... I'd say more 3 out of 10. 8+ is more 1 in 10. 9+ is 1 in 100. Again, in my experience... which includes being a bit of a whore and living in San Francisco for 20 years. :)
Just curious, are you a top or bottom? I'd assume bottoms would see more big dicks as hung tops are definitely going to put themselves out there more. Tops may not see many dicks as its not the focus they are looking for in bottoms and bottoms aren't more likely to put themselves out there because of their dick size.

Basically all I'm saying is, biases can affect the data some lol
 

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Just curious, are you a top or bottom? I'd assume bottoms would see more big dicks as hung tops are definitely going to put themselves out there more. Tops may not see many dicks as its not the focus they are looking for in bottoms and bottoms aren't more likely to put themselves out there because of their dick size.

Basically all I'm saying is, biases can affect the data some lol
Is there that much variation by role?
 

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Just curious, are you a top or bottom? I'd assume bottoms would see more big dicks as hung tops are definitely going to put themselves out there more. Tops may not see many dicks as its not the focus they are looking for in bottoms and bottoms aren't more likely to put themselves out there because of their dick size.

Basically all I'm saying is, biases can affect the data some lol
Really odd idea that a top doesn't see the bottom's dick.

On the question: I don't carry tape measure with me, but FWIW my impression is that the statistics are basically right, in the sense that the vast majority of dicks sit somewhere between 5 and 7, and I don't think one can say much more than that.
 

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Really odd idea that a top doesn't see the bottom's dick.

On the question: I don't carry tape measure with me, but FWIW my impression is that the statistics are basically right, in the sense that the vast majority of dicks sit somewhere between 5 and 7, and I don't think one can say much more than that.
Tops probably don't see many big dicks is what I meant. A bottom may seek out big dicks. A top most likely isn't looking for a big dick bottom.
 

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Just curious, are you a top or bottom? I'd assume bottoms would see more big dicks as hung tops are definitely going to put themselves out there more. Tops may not see many dicks as its not the focus they are looking for in bottoms and bottoms aren't more likely to put themselves out there because of their dick size.

Basically all I'm saying is, biases can affect the data some lol
Lol, that's fair. I'm quite versatile. I do also find big-dicked bottoms a turn on. But the best is fucking a bottom and then climbing on top to let him finish. :)
 

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So it’s rare yes. As a self proclaimed size queen, seeking out 8plus can be disheartening but it generally helps depending on the gay population, big gay cities like London it’s much easier to find, but living in a small city as I do now roughly 250,000, i find most gays are coupled up and less opportunities to meet at clubs/ parties. I would say maybe 1/30 in small city 1/10-12 in big city.
 
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I kinda put faith in the standard bell curve stats. That said, it seems like
Guys that play more are maybe some of the bigger guys, and guys with
smaller than average dicks maybe don't. Still, kind of subjective.
Anyways, Seems like the average I've seem is around 6 inches, and lots
up to around 7 or 7.5, and not many over 8.
Not too many bigger than me, but a few for sure.
 

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1 in 10 is a bit too "rare"... I'd say more 3 out of 10. 8+ is more 1 in 10. 9+ is 1 in 100. Again, in my experience... which includes being a bit of a whore and living in San Francisco for 20 years. :)
Ok, then post that in the 10" thread because it's almost never seen out of all the ones scoured everywhere and you're saying 1% of people have that. Even 8+ isn't 1 in 10. If you think I'm wrong post it in the 10" thread and see if they agree with what I'm saying or what you're saying.
 
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Ok, then post that in the 10" thread because it's almost never seen out of all the ones scoured everywhere and you're saying 1% of people have that. Even 8+ isn't 1 in 10. If you think I'm wrong post it in the 10" thread and see if they agree with what I'm saying or what you're saying.
I wasn't offering scientific evidence. I said, "in my experience..."

And in my experience over the last ~35 year of my sexual activity, I would say about once every ten times I hooked up, I ran into someone who was approaching 8 inches. Maybe one in 15... I really did not keep track. And that could certainly be because I was going after a particular type of guy -- slender twinky guys with big packages. So there was probably some selection bias in my sample size.

But I think my larger point remains relevant. The dozens of studies about average penis size are probably more accurate than anyone's personal experiences or opinions. Unless the 10" thread is populated by sex researchers and urologists, I could care less what the consensus there says. :)
 

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I’d say it depends on where you are. Here I’d say our average is 6-7”. Lots of guys with 8” around too, 9” gets pretty rare to find but not difficult. Personally I’m 4” (was 5” before getting locked) and I’ve gotten messages from a lot of guys with similar sizes