Dominance is about a dynamic of dominant and submissive. There is old guard tradition and new guard. . and leather lifestyle 24-7 life.. dog cage and all.. LOL. . but seriously. . lighten up, and open your eyes people. The leather community has all kinds of different guys with different dynamics going on. People are into all kinds of different kinks and roles in them.
In the bedroom, some people take different roles. Many people would assume that the male in the top role of sexual intercourse, would be the dominant one. . IE the (fucker), but that is not always the case. . Life under the "skittles rainbow", is flavorful. People have all kinds of sexual tastes. I have seen and heard it all...Ok. . I mean hell. . I have a Male-Trans-Female , post Op trans., best friend who is into Butch Lesbian women. . so Hey. . whatever floats your boat.. the dominance (role) is as varied or spectrum-like.. just like the roles of intercourse.. Top-Vers-bottom.. . Dom-Switch-Sub.
As an example of a Sub-Top.. a "stud-man", .. The guy is viewed as a submissive to a dominant bottom. and in the sexual dynamic as a piece of meat.. a fucker to be milked and used. ... and is that any different really than the top, thinking a guy's ass is a (hole)?..the only difference is the assumption of the power-dynamic. I think too often people view things from a narrow focus.. Open your view a little more and you may see more. I gained some knowledge a long time ago about not assuming things about others. Just because someone is into something, that doesn't mean that they may meet all the stereotypes you have in your head about that kind of person. A complete other person is outside of stereotypes. in other words,.. just because someone has a preference for a role or activity, it doesn't mean they are that way, or want it that way all the time.