Are there any gay men married to women?

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With me talking to a lot of men from this site, I meet a lot who love the cock and made the choice to say I do years and years ago. Do any of you feel that you love your wives, but you're stuck? If any of you could turn back time, would you? Is it hard hiding who you are and what you enjoy? No judgement, just curious.
 

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With me talking to a lot of men from this site, I meet a lot who love the cock and made the choice to say I do years and years ago. Do any of you feel that you love your wives, but you're stuck? If any of you could turn back time, would you? Is it hard hiding who you are and what you enjoy? No judgement, just curious.
Know this thread is 10 years old, but better late than never. Yes, married to a woman but now ID as gay.
 
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Well I'm bi, married a woman, have kids, very happy with it. However I grew up in the age of easy access to porn. Guess on the spectrum im more on the straight side too.

BUT, Makes me wonder what if I had no outlet for my gay side? Would i go wondering ??
 
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Well I'm bi, married a woman, have kids, very happy with it. However I grew up in the age of easy access to porn. Guess on the spectrum im more on the straight side too.

BUT, Makes me wonder what if I had no outlet for my gay side? Would i go wondering ??
Apart from porn do you hook up with guys how do you satisfy the gay side of you
 
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No never, just porn, it's a voyeuristic experience I get off on I guess. No real desire there to have a relationship with a guy, don’t even want to kiss a guy. I could fuck one, but I haven't even had anal with a girl. None of my past girlfriends wanted to (perhaps my size, or just an excuse and I didn't push it.) So just an aperication from the other side of the fence. As for sex itself my wife never seems to deny me soo I'm happy eating home so far.
 
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It is quite common.

I would say about 8 or 10 guys I have fucked in the last ten years have been married (to a woman) bi guys. So that is maybe 20 - 30 % of them I think (I am in an open relationship, but not hooking up as often as in my 20s / 30s) …

And I tend to only look for guys who can get here within say an hours drive of my house, so not that huge an area.
 
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It is quite common.

I would say about 8 or 10 guys I have fucked in the last ten years have been married (to a woman) bi guys. So that is maybe 20 - 30 % of them I think (I am in an open relationship, but not hooking up as often as in my 20s / 30s) …

And I tend to only look for guys who can get here within say an hours drive of my house, so not that huge an area.
I agree there are a lot of bi men married to women and have closeted gay encounters. But this thread is really about gay, not bi guys. I think there are more than people would guess actual gay guys (whether always gay, or transitioned from bi to gay) guys married to women and most of us are closeted.