And since you have me off on a tangent, I'll offer a little more of insight (which I'm assuming by now you're just pissed off enough to actually read through). You see, when we made the decision to invade Iraq in 2003, right, wrong, misconstrued, or misinterpreted, the Iraqi people/government/military may or may have not known what was disseminated to our people, and you can bet your life they damned sure didn't share it with the Iraqi public; even if they had, the ability of the public to gather the information through news or internet was impossible.
Therefore, upon our arrival, their people viewed it as a defensible occurrence. Meaning anyone standing in our opposition was "right". Now, in military conflict, once "on the ground" anyone who opposes you by military standards is a legitimate target, as we were there being the "opposition/invaders". We were legitimate military targets for them, and vice versa. We did not single out civilian targets, just as they did not. Any of our troops killed were seen as legitimate and justifiable targets in their eyes, and properly so by the rules of warfare/combat. Which side you agree with is an entirely different matter. When anyone in combat presents any type of threat, it doesn't matter whether it is man, woman, or child; a threat is a threat. The way they employed children and women as suicide bombers can be likened in principle to how our military operates; lower enlisted are given orders to follow yet they come from a way of life where there is absolutely no questioning of adults by children or women of men, and they are taught a level of dedication to "cause and religion" far beyond what most westerners can begin to comprehend. The middle east (and many more cultures) are sheer genius to employ women and children as weapons of war and combatants, because Europeans and Westerners are some of the few cultures in the world which hold women and children in such high regard, consequently causing almost every member of our military to hesitate to use force against them regardless of how justified we will be in the use of force. This very same tactic also creates an uproar with our civilian population. A tactic to use what they see as nothing but property against us, when we see their "property" as respectable pillars of our society.
The same principle applies if the U.S. were attacked..... regardless of who was right or wrong in the world's eyes, I will defend my country and her people. Therefore, I will be seen as a legitimate enemy combatant, and will be subject to justifiable force by any outside aggressor. It's not genocide. It's war. It's one people defending against another. Right or wrong is to be determined in a different venue.