Are there any top bottoms or bottom tops out there ?

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A bottom top- A feminine guy who you would think is a bottom, who actually is a dominant top.

A top bottom- A very masculine guy, who only bottoms.

Are there any out there ? Like it’s weird to think of a hard masculine guy being that “man” for his baby but then is the one getting fucked. Nothing wrong with that but do any of y’all exist and if so explain your situation. Expand my horizon.
 

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I’m a skinny kid, so most people assume I’m the one getting railed in my relationship. My boyfriend is typically masculine and has a beard, but yeah, he’s crazy for cock.

Attached pic of my body for reference :)
 

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There are multiple threads on this site regarding this subject. Search and enjoy.

Your labels are built on outdated and misguided stereotypes. I have many friends who fit into this category and many more of us who are versatile. I’ve known some couples for 30+ years and I can’t tell you how it works in their bedroom and honestly I don’t care. This top/bottom - male/female role assigning makes me nuts. Do straight couples wonder is Sally is pegging Tim or does Kim like it in the ass or can Joyce deep throat Bob who everyone knows has a big cock?

Being “masculine” has nothing to do with your role in the bedroom. Additionally and more importantly, being a bottom is not emasculating or feminine and does not require you to give up any masculinity.

Now, this is clearly just my opinion. I’m a 55 year old gay male who is versatile and whose coworkers would never guess likes a great ass pounding. My husband likes one too so it works fine for us.
 

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I’m a skinny kid, so most people assume I’m the one getting railed in my relationship. My boyfriend is typically masculine and has a beard, but yeah, he’s crazy for cock.

Attached pic of my body for reference :)

Damn! Why do the skinny hot ones always have huge cocks? Lol. Not a bad thing obviously, just an observation... Seen a fair few guys with similar body proportions to yours and similar "third leg" netherbits... Love the picture though
 
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I may fit into the second category. I'm predominantly a bottom but my feminine side seems undetected by most people; my mannerisms and physical form contrasted with those of my partner's make everyone assume that I am the top. There's one person in my community who even says he doesn't believe my partner is a man and doesn't believe that I am gay; a great example of how shallow can people can be. I personally would've never identified as a 'masculine' person but this is a label that society has given me.
 
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I'm a mans man who like to fuck and be dominant. But... I also like to get pegged by women and suck cock. Never like to be submissive unless I'm with a very dominant women. Is there such a thing as dominant bottom? Switch maybe?