Are there couples who aren't even aware that the man has a large cock?

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  1. Dan the man

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    Do you think there are any or many couples where if the man is extremely hung, say 8" to 10", neither he or his wife/GF ever thought about it? Perhaps the female just accepts it as what a 'normal' cock is meant to look like and doesn't actually realise how lucky she is, ( such as if she's not even slept with any other man), and perhaps the man also doesn't realise he has a big one, perhaps he also thinks he's just got a normal cock? A couple that basically have no ego as such and don't consider big cocks like most others?
     
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    A similar question came up in another thread, which asked if there were/are extremely hung men who don't have a clue. Human curiosity is strong enough to make the situation you're talking about extremely unlikely. The man and the woman both must not have a clue, and that's even less likely (than a man not knowing he is very hung). Teenagers, sure, but apart from that, I don't think so.
     
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    Fair comment. Perhaps then if the man has always been aware he's got a huge one and even boasts to his partner, that she might respond in such a way as "oh, that's nice dear" or "really? I didn't realise you were regarded as extra big", but without it particularly bothering her. That's always a vague possibility I suppose.
     
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    Physiologically unlikely, but possible.
     
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    I'm a guy who did not really have a clue that I was well-endowed until this last year (and I'm 31 now). I knew I was bigger than average after I first tried to put on a normal condom and it wouldn't work. But I didn't realize how rare it was to be 8"+
     
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    It would have to be where the woman never saw other erect penises. And they would have had to not use condoms much. If the girth is big and they tried different condoms, I'd think they would realize. But some men say they don't like condoms so they switch to some other form of birth control before they realize the condoms are uncomfortable because they are too big for regular condoms. So it is possible I think.
     
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    I expect that this used to be a very common occurrence, but with more and more people looking at pornography and getting a false impression of normal dick size from it (i.e., imagining the norm to be much larger than in fact it is), I think that it is getting less common.

    Somewhere I read an anecdote about some married women who were looking together at some pictures of naked men, and one of them said, "Why are their penises so small?" The other women looked at each other and drew the obvious conclusion about the man she was married to. Cute story, I think.
     
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    It depends on how many others they've seen.
     
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    I had a gf in my teens, and she hadn't been with anyone else. It was before I realized I was big. It was just business as usual until we broke up and she was with this guy that was said to be big. We got back together later and she started telling me how huge I am. I guess it happens when you are younger, or less experienced. I haven't been with anyone since that didn't realize it.
     
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    Its the other way round for me, I always thought my boyfriend was big.............then I discovered the internet. (Saying that tho he is 7.3/4" x 5.5" so he's not small)

    The internet opened my eyes to many things.....lol

    He didnt know he was above average tho!!!
     
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    Lol yeah. This place certainly humbled me. Thing is, we have to bear in mind that the collection of donkey freaks on here ( meant in the nicest possible way :tongue: ) gives a slightly false impression that every second man in the world outside of lpsg must be packing a space shuttle. But statistics say otherwise, hence the mean average being 6" and under. So in fact, in the real world, these supersizers are rare and your boyfriend can certainly still be considered big, certainly on length, compared to the majority of the population.

    I am curious though how many women get to experience a huge cock at least once in their life. Outside of this forum, I've heard lots of women say (or read something they've written ) something to the effect of " I was once with a guy who was really big..." I wonder if this means that almost 100% of women have had a massive dick at some point in their life, without having gone out of their way to find one.
     
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    I think that cock sizes have increased, dress sizes and bra sizes certainly have so I think the that maybe the average cock size needs to be reasessed!

    There is a lot said about the changing shape of women over the years, it must also apply to men.

    I've never got with a guy to find he is small - thank god.
     
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    i really wasnt aware until a girl in middle school grabed my bulge.
     
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    I doubt it,with the way sex is openly talked about in society,on tv,in the workplace,gyms,wherever else.The subject of size comes up in many forms nowadays,I can't believe anyone who is packing doesn't know that they are.
     
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    actually i believe this goes on everyday in the Quaker Villages.
     
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    I think it does happen that the hung person is not aware of it, or the partner has not compared and realized it, either.

    To me, I realized it when I joined this group, really, because before, I just thought my penis was well shaped and very "reliable" when sexing, but nothing else made me think about extra size. I thought condoms were supposed to be that tight and on the short side, since they needed to avoid sperm spill.

    I even got clues from 2 different girls I had sex with, one was an ex girlfriend, the first time we were going to have sex, she went down the sheets to suck me, and said "it's big!!!!"

    Then another girl I had problems penetrating said she was in pain, until she started bleeding (I thought, but she was married and had a kid) probably was what people refer to as "tearing". We stoped and then she was saying things like "you are like a donkey" smiling...

    I am not as huge as they come (19cm long, 16.30 cm girth), and still it took me quite a few years to think of myself as hung.
    I am happy with the surprise, nevertheless.
     
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    I certainly have first hand experience of this which is probably why i'm on this forum?! my first boyfriend was huge, about 9" and really thick so my early sexual encounters were often uncomfortable and sometimes painful, but we dealt with it and over time sex was amazing. When we broke up (after 4 years) i obviously experienced other men and the issue of size really bothered me, some men in comparison were tiny and in my naivety i thought that they were smaller than average not that my first boyfriend was unusually BIG! Now i still long for big cock but have to accept that most men cant measure up - sex is still great and yes its the first few inches of a women that contain all the nessasary nerve ending blah, blah, blah... but being dominated by a big coak is such a turn on for me!!
     
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    My ex hadn't been with to many guys when we first started dating. She had really only seen 2 dicks before, one about average and the other very small. So she thought my dick was huge the first time she saw it, she says she thought it was 9" (its really 7x6). However since we broke up and she has hooked up with other guys, when we hooked up recently she told me how much she appreciates my dick more now becuase she has some more persepective. All the guys she has hooked up with have been about average or smaller and usually on the thin side. We were laying in bed the other night and she told me, "Its so amazing that your not even fully hard and your bigger than pretty much all the guys i've been with recently"
     
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    Always considered I was average (even on the small side, in fact).

    Most girls remarked that I was big, but I just figured that was pillow talk and said to make me feel good.

    Only found out, at the age of around 40, that I'm bigger than average.

    And still not convinced.

    But if true - what a shame I never knew earlier and benefited from the confidence that would have provided.
     
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    I wouldn't bet on it
     
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