Are there couples who aren't even aware that the man has a large cock?

[Chick&2DicksUK]

I wouldn't bet on it

Bravo.

Never had a clue.

For most of my life.

Even when my lady has bragged about it to her friends, they think it's just that. Bragging. Or one-upmanship.

My lady actually showed her pals some of our pics as she was starting to get ridiculed a little and STILL some of them thought/think they're photoshop'd or burgled from the internet.

So, if a guy's not gay and consequently doesn't come into contact with many erect cocks, how's he to know for sure?

Where does "big" start, anyway?

It's easy not to know if the guy is packing and the lady is inexperienced (maybe only ever having been lucky and got lucky with her previous lover/lovers).

Even porn and the internet doesn't give a clue, really, cuz there ARE so many photoshop'd phonies.

 

[B_andyo]

I thought I was average until I was like 15 yr old. Since my only way to compare was porn I though I was normal or maybe a bit better at age 15.

 

[Love-it]

I was 57 when we figured out that I was bigger than average in girth, 6.25" and I thought 6" in length was average, I was 6.5" which isn't much more than that. Now that I have lost 35 pounds another inch in length has appeared and I have another 25 pounds to go.

I found LPSG in a search for penis measurements because my wife finally said, crying, that maybe I was just to big for her and maybe that was why she experienced pain and avoided intercourse for the last 32 years.

 

[melis]

My first lover, T, was 8-ish... We certainly both enjoyed his cock - but I don't think we knew that he was larger than most. Neither of us had been around other erect cocks (at the time) - and flaccid, he appeared smaller than average. I just figured it was normal, didn't realize until my next lover (who was less than half his size) that T was above average. Oh well...

 

[basharbd]

I have a situation that is kind of opposite. I was at a close family friends wedding in Bangladesh and I ended up spending the night at someone's house and there were three college aged girls. Sex is very taboo and these girls didn't know much but because I've lived in America they assumed I was all about sex. Initially questions were about what pleasure there was from sex for women (they didn't know about orgasms). I told them about orgasms. Anyways, by the end of the night, they wanted to see my penis! I was hesitant but pulled after some nagging, pulled it out. They were all shocked. They thought I was HUGE compared to the ones they've experienced. So I am guessing that if there are people out there who don't know they're small, there are people out there who don't know they're big.

 

[ClaireTalon]

Do you think there are any or many couples where if the man is extremely hung, say 8" to 10", neither he or his wife/GF ever thought about it? Perhaps the female just accepts it as what a 'normal' cock is meant to look like and doesn't actually realise how lucky she is, ( such as if she's not even slept with any other man), and perhaps the man also doesn't realise he has a big one, perhaps he also thinks he's just got a normal cock? A couple that basically have no ego as such and don't consider big cocks like most others?

That's about what it had been like with my first boyfriend. I'd been a humble 18-year-old cadet, as he had been too, and we got together for a few weekend dates during our first military training tour. In retrospect, he had been somewhat around 8", probably slightly above, and it had been like the most normal thing on earth to me. Surely this had been because his penis was the first I had seen in full, erect glory, so I took it for normal. Dates with other guys who were less blessed than him really disappointed me, until I got in the groove of judging what was big and what was average, and also what was small.

 

[quarrel]

This is relevant to my own experience. I always thought I was just about average, mostly because you always see penis size stated in terms of how long you are. I had seen that 5-6 inches was average. It wasn't until I saw some more complete stats that I started thinking about girth. I was in my late 20s before that happened. That has changed how I view the whole question of size.

 

[Dan the man]

Great replies everyone. Yeah, I kinda figured there might be some women who hadn't realise their partners were above average, such as ClaireTalon just mentioned.

 

[Jovial]

Another thing is you may know the average length is about 6" but not know the standard deviation. So if you are 7" or 8" you may not realize that a couple inches makes you much rarer. You think 7", oh, I'm about average. (And average girth is talked about less, so it's even harder to gauge how you are relative to others.) Same thing with height. I think 6'3", so I'm just a few inches over 6', no big deal. Then other people tell me 3" is a big deal!

 

[superman6466]

Lol yeah. This place certainly humbled me. Thing is, we have to bear in mind that the collection of donkey freaks on here ( meant in the nicest possible way :tongue: ) gives a slightly false impression that every second man in the world outside of lpsg must be packing a space shuttle. But statistics say otherwise, hence the mean average being 6" and under. So in fact, in the real world, these supersizers are rare and your boyfriend can certainly still be considered big, certainly on length, compared to the majority of the population.

I am curious though how many women get to experience a huge cock at least once in their life. Outside of this forum, I've heard lots of women say (or read something they've written ) something to the effect of " I was once with a guy who was really big..." I wonder if this means that almost 100% of women have had a massive dick at some point in their life, without having gone out of their way to find one.

Yeah, I've heard that too. After thinking about it for a while, I've come to the conclusion that no, most women have not had a guy with a huge dick (by lpsg standards anyway). However, most of them probably believe that they have. I mean, it's all relative right? Define "huge". It's a word created by man to describe something that is larger than most or all other similar objects.

Now, say you're a woman who has only seen a certain number of erect penises up close and personal, and doesn't obsess over stats and numbers like we do. Wouldn't the largest have to be considered huge by definition? As far as said woman is concerned, the largest guy is huge, regardless of how big he actually is in comparison with the rest of the planet.

This applies to the original topic as well. If your sample size is one, then you have no frame of reference. Big and small are only words, and can only be applied if you've got something to compare with.

 

[Kiks121]

As a woman i read 'girlie' magazines growing up like vogue and cosmopolitan all of which publish articles on penis size often stating them same sort of thing. They talk about the average penis size being around 6" and lead us to beleive that most men have the same sort of equiptment. This is rubbish; although i havent actually slept with loads of men, those that i have experienced have varied significantly in terms of size, shape, coloure texture etc..... i've experienced extremely small (3" erect) to massively big 9"+ and every one has been different. Whilst size isn't the only factor when considering great sex a larger penis certainly reaches places a smaller one cant. There are plenty of couples who probably dont realise how big the man is but what often baffles me is small men who think they're larger than most!?!..

 

[lucky8]

i never thought i had a big one till i came here...girls would say it was big, and id hear from other girls that they had heard it was really big, but i never considered myself hung until recently...ive seen it everyday for the last 22 years so its not as special to me as it is to other people