Are there gay couples who dont do anal stuff?

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As an HIV educator and test counselor, I have pretty frank talks with lots of gay men. I would say about 25 percent share info that they are only into oral. The number could be higher since persons who engage in oral sex are on the lower end of the totem pole, I probably have less contact with persons who do not feel that they are at risk.

That said, I still meet guys who are engaging in unprotected anal and who are not on PrEP who also think that there is no risk in their activities for such reasons as “ is HIV still around?” or “ I thought that had been cured because I never hear anything about it anymore”.
 

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Hubby and I have been together for 41 years next month. We have done and still do a number of different things sexual together. Anal is not on the menu. Neither one of us has any desire to top or bottom. That's what works. For us.
 
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While we do have anal sex, we do not have it all the time. you can't have it quite spontaneous, that's the biggest downside IMO. So most of the time it's more about other practices.

Hubby and I have been together for 41 years next month. We have done and still do a number of different things sexual together. Anal is not on the menu. Neither one of us has any desire to top or bottom. That's what works. For us.

41 years? wow that's quite impressive man! congratulations :)