I think there's four groups of people in general:
1. Oral top feeders who just want to get their nut off and only look at the cocksucker as an orifice there for their pleasure. These types consider themselves superior to cock suckers and general want nothing to do with any homo. In real life they look down on gays.
2. Oral top feeders who just want to get their nut off but we (I'm in this group) know the power dynamic is half of the sexual experience. We are constantly looking for our next good blowjob, but understand there the guy that is servicing us is a real person. We try to make them as comfortable as possible while still maintaining that alpha/dominance of the act itself. They're there to suck my dick and that's the only thing I want. If they're cool, we can become friends. In real life, we treat everyone equally and fairly. If we establish a connection and they ask to be degraded, that can be an option -- but that has to be discussed first.
3. Oral bottom cocksuckers who don't give a fuck if they're getting a load from either #1 or #2 above. They don't give a fuck about anything -- looks, manners, attitude, etc. -- they just want to suck a load out and don't care about the person who's feeding it to them. When a guy from #1 above pushes them off their dick after they cum, this type of cocksucker just turns around and walks out the door. Sometimes they take abuse and degradation.
4. Oral bottom cocksuckers who understand the wide range of sexuality and know what they like. These are the 20% or 50% gay or even 100% gay guys. They seek out comfortable feeders like #2 above, and they do it because giving head brings them pure pleasure themselves. In fact, these are the true cock worshippers who can cum without touching themselves when their feeder starts to climax in their mouth.
Personally, I am #2 and want a #4 in my life.
I also believe -- and this is just my opinion and I know we all have different stuff that turns our cranks -- that the combination of #1 and #3 above is generally unhealthy for both sides.
But I also know and understand that putting everything into a box and giving it a definition is really hard. There's a lot of 1.5s and 3.5s and everything in between.
These are just my observations, and my attempt at continuing the conversation because apparently
@openfly and
@BlueBanana-1 haven't yet figured out private messaging and need to get a room.

