So last week this guy & I decided to go to the White Party on Sunday (last night) that was to be held at a gay club. He ended up flaking on me and all my other gay friends were busy so I ended up not going at all. Now I was very excited and looking forward to going and it sucked that I couldn't. When sitting around I started thinking of something, why is it that I HAVE to go to a gay club and why wouldn't any of my other friends want to go with me. I mean us as gays always go out with our straight friends to their hangout spots but why if they're our friend and ok with our homosexuality can't they do the same and come along to a gay club. It makes me feel like if you're gay you have to go to the place where only gays go with gays; as if we're some sort of huge clan of diseased people that have to be locked up together away from the rest of society. Well discuss this and let me know what you think about real friends being able to go to a gay club with their gay friend.