To some virginity is an event that can be done in 5 minuts of penetration depends the type of hymen one has, to others it take more actions to it go away for good...:tongue: and to most women first time is not very good but gets better, and even excelent to some.
If we are talking about man and woman sexual interaction here, than...for most men orgasm is natural as to breath..to many women is not common depending of the approach being used to reach it. To many men is very difficult to understand that women 'cannot' have the same reactions as he has..still..

How many of men in here do not orgasm when having sex by any means??? How many of men in here being over stimulated by 10 minutes penetrating is not ready to shot ? How many of you have to learn to control your ejaculations because you are ready sooner them most women???
To me most people will prefer to engage in activities that brings them pleasure of course...and do not find appealing just to go with the flow of a particular activity. There are women that finds pleasure being penetrated but not orgasm by it just that but with manipulation of clitoris...others find their pleasure by being penetrated and orgasm by it. Than among all the preferences if you have a particular buttom that gives you pleasure plus you orgasm by it will be heaven..:biggrin1:
There are people who find their orgasm buttoms by themselves in a very early age..they are engage into pleasure themselves for a long time...they have sex with themselves some say. In both case they must learn to have sex with another partner, pleasuring themselves together...in my observations this situation is way more easy to men. And women many times they learn too engage a partner into the picture as she already knows how to please themselves. Sometimes or many times she is penetrating and stimulating clitoris to reach orgasm and blabla.
But what people dont get it or know is that is not a formula that applies to everybody...there are people that do not engage in experiences with themselves early because it did not tickle to touch and explore, or was 'forbidden' but really even h is not 'allowed' wen it tickles you're going to play with it anyways

and maybe some can carry some early 'guilty'.
But some make late discoverings in life. They will make discoveries with their partners, it can even take long to some...some are having pleasures and orgasm for long time with themselves and others will learn to as an older age.
Than to try to shove individual experiences in bags, in very simplified manner will not answer anything really...for this motive those issues belong to 'my' and 'your' unique experiences, and gender here do apply.
And I was thinking about the "Desvirginator" situation, as wanting to make an interview with her and listen to her side of the story. Because I would want to know what she was getting from all the bj's and anals...what the degree of pleasure she was getting from it...and etc. Why she decided to act the way she did and etc. Not to judge her actions but just to listen what she has to say. And how long ago and how old was she anyways ? We tend to be extra inconsequent when we are younger...
In my own experiences I had lots of pleasurable vaginal penetrations with no orgasms but for sure I was having sex. When I learn how to trigger my orgasms..ulala..it for sure add much more to my sexual experiences.