Are well hung men more considerate lovers?

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Although the porn industry seems to always portray hung men as being soley concerned about their own pleasure, in real life, do you find that the opposite is true?

Ever since I lost my virginity as a teenager, I've been very careful about not hurting my lovers with my dick. That meant that I've always enjoyed lots of foreplay and never engaging in intercourse before my partner was very wet--almost always adding lube to the mix. It also meant that I've been careful not to push too deep until whoever I was with was fully "tented," and even then, I'm careful to pay attention to all of her signs so that I'm not poking somewhere it isn't appreciated.

My guess is that I'm not the only one out there who's got a big cock, but really tries to use it as a tool for pleasuring his partner, and not some sort of battering ram to leave a woman aching afterwards. What's been your experience?
 

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although it's been 30 yrs since I was single, that fact should tell one that I know my way around a bedroom. I've kept one woman happy & content for that long. my wife's friends have even asked "what's he got down there?, that keeps you from even being slightly interested in another man or straying"? And I bedded lots of ladies b4 her and never had a many compliants. one or two wished I was bigger. I am a little over 7" and did not consistently bang on the cervix, so I wasn't hurting the ladies that way. my girth is over 6" and most all enjoyed that, maybe not at first, but I went slow.
 

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I've experienced both sides of the coin on this one. Hung men that had no desire to spend time with foreplay "Eat me" is not foreplay and never will be. But most of the handful of men I've been with that were 7 or more inches long have been quite considerate about bottoming out and restraining penetration to what I was able to take at the moment until I opened up.
 

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Your personality determines how considerate of a lover you are.
The size of your cock only matters in so much as it determines your personality and if your personality is based primarily around your cock, then you in alot of trouble.
 

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Not in my experience, some of the worst ones I was ever with were also the biggest. They acted like it was honor to be sharing it with me! Then again, they were also when I was in my early 20s in college, so maybe they learned better.
 

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I think this is more down to the individual. Some guys are considerate lovers some aren't and thats not necessarily determined by size. I agree with qazwsx it is partly about personality and also about how they view sex. If it all about their pleasure, their cock, their orgasms then selfishly they won't care if they leave their partner aching and sore.
 

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Actually the most inconsiderate lover I ever had was also disappointing size wise. Have only had a couple of well hung guys that weren't absolutely concerned with control of their penetration.
 

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Consideration and size have no link at all. There are the guys who know they have to be more careful and then there are the guys who think every woman wants to be fucked hard by a big cock no matter how much it hurts. I really does depend on the guy.
 

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Not in my experience, some of the worst ones I was ever with were also the biggest. They acted like it was honor to be sharing it with me! Then again, they were also when I was in my early 20s in college, so maybe they learned better.

realistically tho it is an honor....
having sex with someone should be an honor for you both so I mean really you know....be apprecitive :p
 

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Not in my experience, some of the worst ones I was ever with were also the biggest. They acted like it was honor to be sharing it with me! Then again, they were also when I was in my early 20s in college, so maybe they learned better.

realistically tho it is an honor....
having sex with someone should be an honor for you both so I mean really you know....be apprecitive :p

She is very right. The guys with big cocks who think that's enough to make them a good fuck. :puke:Its never an honour to fuck one of them. Nor is it ever good