Although the porn industry seems to always portray hung men as being soley concerned about their own pleasure, in real life, do you find that the opposite is true? Ever since I lost my virginity as a teenager, I've been very careful about not hurting my lovers with my dick. That meant that I've always enjoyed lots of foreplay and never engaging in intercourse before my partner was very wet--almost always adding lube to the mix. It also meant that I've been careful not to push too deep until whoever I was with was fully "tented," and even then, I'm careful to pay attention to all of her signs so that I'm not poking somewhere it isn't appreciated. My guess is that I'm not the only one out there who's got a big cock, but really tries to use it as a tool for pleasuring his partner, and not some sort of battering ram to leave a woman aching afterwards. What's been your experience?