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When they say thank you after sex? A genuine thank you. I'm not being shallow here by asking, it's just that it is a very lovely thing to say in my opinion. I say it myself because the moments enjoyed are well worth that humble little remark, yet it means much.
 

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I don't think I've ever thanked anyone for having sex with me. Hmmmm. Interesting, though.

It is, or should be, a mutually enjoyed event. I may have said some things that could be construed as thanks, but never come outright and say something like oh thank you so much for letting me make you achieve orgasm.
 

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I do say thank you... and I DO mean it, every time.

I also have received "thank you"...

I just think it is a huge compliment to thank someone for sharing your fun time.
Even after 31 yrs of marriage, I still thank my husband, and I mean it. (really, it is getting more and more rare that we have sex, and I know he is trying to please me, so of course I thank him. And he also thanks me.)

It is always "thank you" but more of an expression of gratitude.
 
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I don't think I've ever thanked anyone for having sex with me. Hmmmm. Interesting, though.

It is, or should be, a mutually enjoyed event. I may have said some things that could be construed as thanks, but never come outright and say something like oh thank you so much for letting me make you achieve orgasm.

Not quite like that :) but in the afterglow it is murmured. It's nice.
 
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I do say thank you... and I DO mean it, every time.

I also have received "thank you"...

I just think it is a huge compliment to thank someone for sharing your fun time.
Even after 31 yrs of marriage, I still thank my husband, and I mean it. (really, it is getting more and more rare that we have sex, and I know he is trying to please me, so of course I thank him. And he also thanks me.)

It is always "thank you" but more of an expression of gratitude.

It can be the beginning or continuing of good sex in a relationship. :)
 

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Never thanked anyone. Dunno, seems an odd thing to say. As if they were a waiter after you've finished and paid for a meal.

For me the "thank you" is expressed in the exchange of bodily fluids and wounded animal noises.

Sometimes we high five.