Are women more sexually vocal than men?

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  1. B_ILIW

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    Do men scream and shout when having sex? I am a man, but I don't think I've ever screamed in that act lol :tongue:

    At most, if getting a deft handjob or something, I've moaned really loudly but never screamed. But then it probably depends on the person.
     
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    I communicate solely through grunts and interpretive dance.
     
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    I can't say that I'm vocal.

    The girl I'm currently with said it's like "fucking a ninja."
     
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    Never had a man that 'screamed' :-/
     
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    I like it when my bf moans and grunts at least he lets me know he's enjoying himself. I like it when he gasps too. I've never heard him scream.

    As far as I go, I can get loud if I'm getting pounded fast and furious just because of the moment we get lost in, not because I purposely am out to scream for the sake of it. I moan, gasp and such a lot more than I scream and usually screams happen much by accident other than just because of the moment, I'm usually pretty reserved about it because I "don't want the neighbors to know." But a nice scream does feel pretty exhilarating every now and again.
     
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    I've had men who grunt, groan and moan, but never one who screams. So I think women are definitely more vocal.
     
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    believe it or not there are many men so sexually inhibited that they feel its not masculine to make any noise during sex ... to moan is "what a bitch does".:confused:
    there are also women who share this opinion. sad.

    On the other hand some women love to hear their men moan ... I have had a girlfriend tell me she came from hearing me moan...which was wild because her moaning often made it difficult for me to keep from cumming. :tongue:
     
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    Allowing myself to vocalise during sex and masturbation is something I find liberating and a turn on. Sex sounds (moaning, gasping, sounds of skin slapping on skin, heavy breathing, grunting) are horny and add to the expereince for me. I can stay quiet during sex if circumstances dictate, but once I start expressing myself vocally it becomes involuntary.

    It does seem that straight men and gay/bi men who generally top are less inclined to do this - I don't know if it is an inhibition thing or simply to do with the fact that a person is more likely to moan and groan when being penetrated than when penetrating. I will say in my experience of couples I have heard having sex (friends in the next room / bunk type scenario) there is no obvious leaning towards women being noisier than gay/bi bottoms.
     
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    I'm a screamer.

    In a manly way of course.
     
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    I consider myself very vocal, the more I like it, the more noise I make. I don't really think I'm a screamer, but if it were good enough... well who knows? I can be quiet if the circumstances call for it and I have no problem turning my face into the pillow to stifle noise if I need too.

    In my experience guys tend to talk or just make a few sounds. I really like it when guys make some sort of sound when they like something a lot. A groan during a blowjob, during intercourse, etc. Guy sounds ramp up my arousal.
     
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    I love a girl that screams.

    just sayin'
     
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    i am vocal, and i love it to make sure she hears it, breathing hard down into her ear, moaning all that, but i am not a screamer and eventually i think all girls i have been with have been louder than me.
     
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    Wonder if any one has cried or sobbed during sex ... er because it felt so good not because of discomfort. :wink:
     
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    Whenever I orgasm, I like to shout "THE PRINCESS IS IN ANOTHER CASTLE" as loud as I'm capable of.
     
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    You rock!
     
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    Yes, women in general are more vocal. But I like it when guys make at least a little noise, vs. silence. I remember the way a guy comes. The ones who are louder or make interesting unusual sounds during orgasms amuse me.
     
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    (Pounds on wall) Hey! Keep it down in there! :cussing:
     
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    :biggrin1::no1:
     
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    You are my new best friend. :biggrin:

    You have the coolest girl ever. :tongue:

    Prove it. :wink:

    That made me literally laugh out loud. Thanks for that. :biglaugh:

    I have never been with a man that screams. Some of the men I've been with are silent, some make noise. When talking to the guys who don't make noise about why they don't make noise, the general consensus was that they just weren't comfortable doing it. Like it didn't seem natural to them. Fair enough. My current boyfriend is the loudest guy I've been with, and does almost scream, though not in a girly way. It's like a very very loud grunt/groan thing. lol. I love love love LOVE that he does, such a huge turn on.
     
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    Ugh I hate it when he's quiet!!!! Guys please....make some noise!
     
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