It may not be a "feminist site" but it's also not a "asshole free-for-all" either. Not saying that you are -- I haven't read all your postings so I can't say comprehensively -- but some of the responses you've elicited are because some of the things you said are rude and *appear* to come from a place of, if not misogyny, at least a perspective that is very demeaning of the value of women.
This site is indeed for people to discuss issues. But if your "saying things" involves insulting and demeaning people, or your "perspective on issues" denigrates or belittles women, then you should not be surprised by that reaction in the least.
Let's take a hypothetical: Imagine if I were to come at you with thinly veiled nastiness about how New Yorkers are all assholes who run their mouths, how husky guys should stop chatting online and go hit a gym for chrissake. If you took offense at any of that, and I responded with, "What's the problem, man? Why so sensitive? This isn't a 'body positive' site, it's a big cock site. Why are you so insane? Sheesh, these NY cocksuckers are so touchy!" ...you might get a sense of why the question you're asking in this thread is less about the women on this site and more about yourself.
Are you catching the drift?