Are Women Selfish?

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  1. Principessa

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    Are women selfish? I ask because I only see men offering to share their wives. I never see porn or postings here where women want to share their husbands or boyfriends with other women? Is there some sort of secret network that these women use instead of posting online? :confused: :confused:

    I think that if a man is a good lay, most women want to keep the guy all to themselves and not share. I know I do. :naughty: :tongue:
     
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    :biggrin1: yep
     
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    I'm utterly unselfish, a giver, a nurturer, in everything but my man. If I ever get him back, I don't want to share him with anyone, because the tremendous love I have for him is all-inclusive. I give my all and the immense intimacy we share cannot be shared with others. God made us ONE FLESH and I don't want that tainted by "sharing" my body or his with others. Old-fashioned, but I love with an intensity and passion with compete dedication which few others are capable of and I know it. Selfless love which is unconditional should not be betrayed, but honored. :wink:

    I don't think that's being selfish; I think it's being wise. :yup:
     
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    ya know ladies go to the bathrooms in groups?

    totally where all the wheeling and dealing is done. it's like the boyfriend/husband stock exchange in ladies room.
     
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    I would never want to share my man with anyone.
     
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    Who the fuck knows why people do what they do?

    If you try to understand it, it might just destroy you.
     
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    I think that men look at sharing pussy with a buddy as fucking fun. Women look at it as love making, not to be shared.
     
  8. lucky8

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    For the most part, yes. Us men must meet each and every specific want or we're either nagged to death or you leave us. Whereas if you ladies don't do something we want, we generally just let it go because we realize it'll just give you another thing to bitch about... Then if we don't do exactly what you want the exact way you want it done, suddenly we're assholes...this is partially why most guys seem to just "not care" about the stupid shit that women care about. In summary, women are nuts and there's no point in trying to understand them ;)

    This concept applies to most man/woman situations
     
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    I hope to God that I'm not the only dude who disagrees entirely with that statement.
     
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    Try going to craigslist. Tons of women wanting to share their men.
     
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    Porn Scenario:
    Wife to hubby: "Happy Birthday honey. I brought you a present. Close your eyes"
    another girl walks into the room.
    Wife: Open your eyes. Isnt she beautiful?
    Wife to girl: Now suck his dick bitch!

    I guess you dont watch enough porn. In 3some related porn, the wife does "share" her man.

    Also, a man is NOT sharing his wife the way you share food. His is "sharing" his wife to fufil his own sexual fantasy. Sometimes he has to pursude her to go through with it. She is often confused why he would want to let some other guy fuck her.

    And have you heard of swingers? They wife/ husband swap, for SEX!!!

    Women are selfish for other reasons, but THAT is another thread.
     
  12. javyn

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    Yeah. Another fail thread by nj. Just let it die now.
     
  13. Principessa

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    Me too!


    Of course I have seen 3some porn, I just don't see that as real.
    Yes, I know what swingers are. :rolleyes:
    That's just it, I never see the women here, let alone IRL needing to see their man pleasured by another woman to fulfill a sexual fantasy.
    Thus my conclusion is that women are not selfish. Men are just freaks. :smile:
     
  14. D_Drew Peacock

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    First this:

    Confusing porn with reality is a very serious mistake and can lead you into all kinds of sorrow and even bigger mistakes. Porn has very little to do with reality. In porn every woman loves to deep throat, is always ready to go at it any time of day or night and always cums before the man. In reality, reverse all those things.

    next this:

    Now this guy makes a lot of sense! Women have a strong urge to control and to feel the power they so often lack. They mostly are denied real power in many areas of their lives and make up for it by running their households like a private fiefdom. Men put up with it because otherwise we never get any sex at all if we are fighting.
     
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    Whoops, I forgot the other point. Women are not selfish for not wanting their man to be a promiscuous dipstick. They just don't want to die of aids or any other STD and they want to be loved like any man with a heart. I don't want to share my wife and I don't want to share my body with anybody else. I just wish she wanted it a bit more often and enjoyed it a bit more. That is all I want.
     
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    The expectation that one person should fulfill all your needs - sexual or otherwise - is unrealistic and an unfair burden on your partner unless that is what you both want.
     
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    Yes...they can be. But then so can men. It is part of the human condition.
     
  18. Pitbull

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    Some women are selfish.
    Some men are selfish.
    Most people are selfish about some things.

    A man sharing his woman with another man.
    How noble. Very christian of him.
    Wait that doesn't sound right.....

    Would never offer to share wife or girlfriend with another man.
    Guess I must be selfish.
     
  19. D_Drew Peacock

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    Well, that is what the marriage vows say, faithful to each other until death do us part. That is probably why marriage has fallen into such disfavor and is no longer nearly as popular as it used to be. It is not easy, but it is the deal we the married signed up for, and for better or for worse it is the commitment that was made.

    And I don't think it is selfish. Idealistic, and perhaps a bit naive at times but it is what it is.

     
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    Don't get me wrong. I would never dream of telling people what kind of relationship is best for them. People have different needs and desires. Two people who invest in a relationship have a responsibility to make sure they're on the same page, that's all.
     
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