Are women turned on by dick pics?

[trulybig]

We all have read about the downfall of a number of guys who sent dick pics to someone online. That gets reported when it is someone of a public nature. So, it is pretty easy to assume that this goes on way more with online activities involving the average public. Any woman whom I have ever heard talk about receiving such a picture is always negative. Comments I hear are "Who wants to see that?, It's gross, Uggh, etc." So, is this a guy thing where us guys think it somehow will excite the woman but in reality it has the opposite effect? Or, is it more secretly women do find it stimulating but publically the social pressure is to act negative about it? I have always heard men are visual and women for the most part are not. If any woman are really on this site (not guys pretending as many here do), I would like to hear your thoughts.

 

[TexanStar]

We all have read about the downfall of a number of guys who sent dick pics to someone online. That gets reported when it is someone of a public nature. So, it is pretty easy to assume that this goes on way more with online activities involving the average public. Any woman whom I have ever heard talk about receiving such a picture is always negative. Comments I hear are "Who wants to see that?, It's gross, Uggh, etc." So, is this a guy thing where us guys think it somehow will excite the woman but in reality it has the opposite effect? Or, is it more secretly women do find it stimulating but publically the social pressure is to act negative about it? I have always heard men are visual and women for the most part are not. If any woman are really on this site (not guys pretending as many here do), I would like to hear your thoughts.

I'd say

1) unsolicited dick pics (sent in PM or embedded in threads) are virtually never going to be appreciated.
2) Women know where the galleries are and some do peruse them, but if you're going to post there then put in some effort. Dropping trousers in the toilet and taking a random shot of your junk is going to be pretty crap as a dick pic, regardless of how nice of a cock you have. Dress up a bit, pose a bit, put the effort in to take a pic that's going to stand out.
3) If a woman wants to see your dick, she'll ask. You don't need to make the offer.

 

[Beelzebub]

God no! Women are repulsed by just a penis, they just are not wired up like us degenerates?

 

[bigbill810]

You got it in the wrong order.

You turn the woman on first (foreplay, sexy talk, whatever gets her fire going), THEN wait for her to ask for the dick pic or ask if she wants to see. There are plenty of women out there who enjoy looking at a dick...but you don't throw lighter fluid on a pile of wood without lighting it first...

 

[bigbill810]

You got it in the wrong order.

You turn the woman on first (foreplay, sexy talk, whatever gets her fire going), THEN wait for her to ask for the dick pic or ask if she wants to see. There are plenty of women out there who enjoy looking at a dick...but you don't throw lighter fluid on a pile of wood without lighting it first...

Let me clarify, I typed that wrong.

You don't throw lighter fluid on a pile of wood AND EXPECT A FIREBALL without lighting it first. Sorry!

 

[EllieP]

Gentlemen, may I?

If someone sends me a picture through private message or text I would hope it would be a pretty smile, an awesome sunset, a cute pet. Most text message pictures I get are from problem areas on a job site or material that was ordered incorrectly or some such.

On here it's a different story. I know full well that I'm on a large penis site, so there would be some exposure to penii along the way. I didn't expect how much exposure.

I still haven't won the election to speak for all women so I guess I'm just talking for myself, but I don't care to receive a photo of a disembodied weenie laying about or sticking out. It really does nothing for me or to me. Believe it or not I've seen a penis before, and I've probably seen one just like yours. I've probably seen smaller, and I've seen larger.

I don't comment, compare, contemplate or criticize weenies. I say "well, there's another one."

Introduce yourself to me with a dick pic, and I'll naturally come to the conclusion that you're a dick. Well, I mean what else am I supposed to think? There are better mating calls.

A dick pic is so uncreative. It's a lame go to.

So, what would I like to see? Well, a smile would be awesome. You can even be naked with a smile. But I'll be looking at the smile.

Remember, this is just me. Other women might feel very differently, so you'll have to ask them.

 

[trulybig]

EllieP, this seems like a very accurate response, thank you. It does seem us guys whether gay or straight are into our penises. We pay close attention and go through various experiences both good and bad related to this one body part. I am not sure when guys send these pics to a woman if they are trying to impress or seek acceptance. I remember seeing the ones that Bret Favre sent and it was certainly not an impressive penis size wise. But, that's the focus of course on this website and again with the male mind. I think as you say and I believe most women are similar, "I don't comment, compare, contemplate or criticize weenies. I say "well, there's another one." So, that's where I am not sure it is always about trying to impress as much as wanting acceptance or approval as well.

What I hadn't thought of in my original post is the concept of "Unsolicited" as well. I am sure that adds to the annoying.

I hope some additional real women will weigh in on this as well.

 

[LaFemme]

You got it in the wrong order.

You turn the woman on first (foreplay, sexy talk, whatever gets her fire going), THEN wait for her to ask for the dick pic or ask if she wants to see. There are plenty of women out there who enjoy looking at a dick...but you don't throw lighter fluid on a pile of wood without lighting it first...

This is so true.

Unsolicited dick pics are annoying and definitely unwanted. Nothing more unattractive than a disembodied weenie making its unannounced entrance onto your screen. Yuck. Ugly and rude.

But if I know the man, know who he is, am into him and am turned on by him and ask to see him...it’s a whole different story. I adore seeing the penis of a man I’m into. Gives me something to fantasize about.

But random dick pics? Ugly. And I get a ton of them. Here I put the guy on ignore immediately. He’s obviously not someone worth talking to.

 

[286798]

Introduce yourself to me with a dick pic, and I'll naturally come to the conclusion that you're a dick. Well, I mean what else am I supposed to think? There are better mating calls.

^^ this ^^

and unless it's truly spectacular (and not in YOUR opinion, because my experience is that all men think theirs is spectacular... well, maybe not the sph folks), i generally will not care to see it.

 

[629889]

I usually know if I am receiving a message on this site it will likely be a dick pic.
I’m not offended by it at all. It’s why I’m on the site to see dicks in all sizes but if you want a response it should be accompanied by a few lines of conversation. What do you say in response to random dick pic?

Are men offended by unsolicited breast pics?

 

[twoton]

Are men offended by unsolicited breast pics?

First answer: No. Are you kidding?

Second answer: It depends on who they belong to.

Third answer: Not offended, but possibly repulsed, depending on who they belong to.

 

[TexanStar]

Are men offended by unsolicited breast pics?

Not offended, but rather suspicious.

When I receive PMs from women I don't know flashing their bits at me, I assume it to be a scam, a bot, etc and they get ignored.

 

[1234185]

Nope. Love breasts but that is probably the whole "men turned on by visual" thing. I hear woman love tight butts and the V indention of a man's pelvis more than a penis. Guess they're less threatening.

 

[icold666v2]

I usually know if I am receiving a message on this site it will likely be a dick pic.
I’m not offended by it at all. It’s why I’m on the site to see dicks in all sizes but if you want a response it should be accompanied by a few lines of conversation. What do you say in response to random dick pic?

Are men offended by unsolicited breast pics?

sorry lol maybe

 

[693987]

Any unsolicited photos sent my way where someone is nude is going to elicit a a very negative response from me. I've never yet encountered an actual woman that thought sending unsolicited nudes was a good idea, but I'm not going to say it's impossible for women out there like that to exist. The only unsolicited nudes I've received were from men who either were fucking idiots and thought they would magically get a positive response, or men who were entitled assholes who knew and didn't care that they would get a negative response, they just wanted to flash their dick.

I don't give a fuck about "societal pressure" as far as my sexual/personal life. It's my life, no one is being hurt by it, and my sweetie is very much a happy consenting adult. Hell, in general I don't give a fuck about "societal pressure" for anything, but I do try to live my life like a decent human. I'm quite comfortable saying I was a slut for a while. I was quite promiscuous but no one was being hurt by it and I feel zero guilt or badness of any sort about it. Safe sex practices and everyone knew they weren't my special sweetie/that I was seeing other people. More often than not, they were fucking people besides me. I've done paid adult cam work, I've hung out 95% nude at an erotic art festival, gotten kicked out of a shopping center because my outfit that covered more than a swimsuit was apparently too scandalous for some stick in the mud person, etc. Societal pressure can kiss my ass. A stranger's unsolicited disembodied penis photo does less than nothing for me.

I watch porn now and then and I like my sweetie's genitals. That's the full extent of caring about anyone else on this planet's genitals that I have, and the porn watching is infrequent. I don't get off on/care about the genitals of the actors in porn, though. There just happen to be genitals in porn, because, well, porn.

I'm extremely visual, but genitals aren't what do it for me. Someone I already find attractive with beads of water on their skin when they've just stepped out of the shower? Yes, please. Someone I already find attractive putting on a sexy display of some sort just for me? Yes, please. Watching someone I already find attractive getting dressed or undressed? Yes, please. Seeing bite marks or claw marks that I left on a lover? Yes, please. Especially striking eyes or a really outstanding smile, even on a stranger? Yes, please, at the least color me intrigued.

 

[LaFemme]

I used to have nudes posted on the site, but couldn’t deal with the misogyny on the site, so I took them down. I have sent nudes to someone I liked quite a lot, but never unsolicited.

Never have I ever sent a boob pic as an introduction. Just can’t recall that happening. Can’t envision it happening. I’d be suspicious of a woman who sends them out as her calling card.

 

[TexanStar]

I used to have nudes posted on the site, but couldn’t deal with the misogyny on the site, so I took them down.

 

[LaFemme]

The sight of Dean crying almost makes me want to put them back up again. Almost.

 

[693987]

The sight of Dean crying almost makes me want to put them back up again. Almost.

I remember those photos *wiggles eyebrows at* Some mighty impressive cleavage, Ms. Femme

 

[TexanStar]

The sight of Dean crying almost makes me want to put them back up again. Almost.

Let it never be said that I did not try