Are you a bossy bottom?

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    I have been told that "bossy bottoms" though better known in the gay community, haver no gender, race, age , or sexual preference. So by definition a dominant woman would be a bossy bottom ,What do you think?
     
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    I would defintiely say I qualify as a bossy bottom. By virtue of equipment would be a bottom and I sho nuff can be bossy!
     
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    Did someone need a bump? :biggrin:
     
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    What could you possibly be trying to say, sir? LOL!
     
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    So by definition a dominant woman would be a bossy bottom ,What do you think?[/quote]

    To me, if you are a guy, either you would be bossy or a bottom. When I am on top I like to be on top. If you are a dominant woman then that is what you are. Bottoms who want to be in control are a huge turn off to me.

    Dominant women are hugely appealing to some guys, bossy bottoms exist, but I just can't bring myself to love them. Sorry.
     
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    No problem !

    I do have good sense as well, so I know there are times when compromise is advisable....




    To me, if you are a guy, either you would be bossy or a bottom. When I am on top I like to be on top. If you are a dominant woman then that is what you are. Bottoms who want to be in control are a huge turn off to me.

    Dominant women are hugely appealing to some guys, bossy bottoms exist, but I just can't bring myself to love them. Sorry.[/quote]
     
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    I do have good sense as well, so I know there are times when compromise is advisable....

    Well perhaps you should feel free to be more assertive actually, I'm sure that heaps of guys would love you to take control, and give them a few unforgettable lessons! As always, the trick is to spot those guys, they'll probably be execs of some type! LOL:wink:
     
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    Gotta love Power Bottoms like Lance Bass.
     
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    ...And perhaps feeling a bit guilty? LOL! So I have been told! Been there seen that done it. I think it is called dating.





     
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    Bossy bottoms are guys who tell you how to f them but don't really end up contributing much more than a hole to fuck and a mouth to shut.

    Power bottoms, or a really good bottom carefully slide into the drivers seat with you to help steer and leave you wondering who really fucked who when its done.

    Its your call.
     
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    Exactly. Also, the Power Bottom will pick up the check.
     
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    Fascinating....
     
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    I've had girlfriends who were quite athletic and physically strong. One was a training rider of thoroughbreds at the track. Another was a professional glass blower. Very physical careers. Either could have probably beat a lot of guys in arm wrestling.

    They were both bottoms, but liked to wrestle a bit on occasion, and be shown who was boss. I had similar experiences with each, during the course of separate encounters.

    The games got quite hot with struggle, and subduing took some tangible effort, but they each appreciated the raw physicality. We had smiles all over our faces as the mutual arousal and sexual tension got to be quite animalistic. They were damp and flushed in defeat (inevitably), and horny as hell.

    Naturally, it led rapidly to enthused sex.
     
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    most (70-80 pct?) of the bottoms i know that are hitched are the ones *really* in control in the MM relationship. for straight friends, it runs 50/50.

    can't comment on a personal level. am single. :smile:
     
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