Are you a bottom who doesn't like to be sucked?

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Great topic, thanks for bringing it up. I have always had a hard time getting my head around this. I guess everyone responds to different stimuli, and some people's brains are strongly wired to body parts other than their penises. The thing that I can't understand is that there isn't a part of my body that doesn't respond to stimulation, so why would someone not like having their cock sucked or fondled?
 
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I don't like getting sucked. I'm a bottom. Prefer to either save up and have good orgasms from anal penetration or have a top fuck me and me jerk off. Sometimes I don't cum at all but feel very satisfied from having gotten fucked.
 

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I don't like getting sucked. I'm a bottom. Prefer to either save up and have good orgasms from anal penetration or have a top fuck me and me jerk off. Sometimes I don't cum at all but feel very satisfied from having gotten fucked.

A long time friend of mine has been saying the same thing for years - loves to be fucked, sometimes pretty hard but only likes to orgasm from being fucked. Interesting.
 
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I don't like getting sucked. I'm a bottom. Prefer to either save up and have good orgasms from anal penetration or have a top fuck me and me jerk off. Sometimes I don't cum at all but feel very satisfied from having gotten fucked.
Thanks, Nellon, for the perspective. It's not the first time I've heard it. It just escapes me a bit. It's a good thing we all like and respond to different things, otherwise sex wouldn't be half as fun. :)
 
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I fucked around a few times with a bottom that did not want to be sucked or jacked off. He would come in, suck my dick and get fucked. After I came, he would come. One time, out of habit, I reached around and started jacking him off. As soon as my hand closed around his dick, he started coming immediately. He then told me that was the reason he didn't like to be touched, it took just a touch to make him shoot. I didn't play with him again after that. At the time, I didn't mind playing with a bottom only. But I wanted some more interaction with them. I at least wanted to suck them too.
 

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I fucked around a few times with a bottom that did not want to be sucked or jacked off. He would come in, suck my dick and get fucked. After I came, he would come. One time, out of habit, I reached around and started jacking him off. As soon as my hand closed around his dick, he started coming immediately. He then told me that was the reason he didn't like to be touched, it took just a touch to make him shoot. I didn't play with him again after that. At the time, I didn't mind playing with a bottom only. But I wanted some more interaction with them. I at least wanted to suck them too.
I have found that a few times also
 

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I love sucking dick, I love having my dick sucked (but I can cum too quickly when getting sucked), I am 100% bottom and love getting fucked. Have me any way you wish. I do have a long time FB who cannot cum when being sucked, cannot cum when fucking...but only cums when being jacked or jacking. To each his own.
 
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I love getting my dick sucked, and I love sucking dick. But when I'm being fucked, I don't like my dick played with too much. The reason is that I love a cock in me and I want to prolong it as much as possible. If I cum, I have to stop, at least temporarily, and I don't want that. I want to fuck as long as possible, and I can go longer if I don't cum.
 

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Not keen on getting sucked either. What gets me off is getting the guy I’m with off. Unless I have a orgasm while I’m getting fucked, I prefer to put all the focus on the guy, his cock, and making him cum. If I’m sucking a guy off I only even get naked if he tells me to (it also means he probably wants to fuck me). And if I’m getting fucked I prefer to focus on opening myself up to take his cock as slow and sensually or hard and deep as he wants.
 

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Not keen on getting sucked either. What gets me off is getting the guy I’m with off. Unless I have a orgasm while I’m getting fucked, I prefer to put all the focus on the guy, his cock, and making him cum. If I’m sucking a guy off I only even get naked if he tells me to (it also means he probably wants to fuck me). And if I’m getting fucked I prefer to focus on opening myself up to take his cock as slow and sensually or hard and deep as he wants.
Thanks, HBILA. That seems to be the general consensus from guys who share your perspective. Is it just a matter that being touched is a distraction for you? It seems, based on what I've observed, that some guys actually pull away from being touched, which is what always surprises me.
 

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As a bottom, I have never had a problem if the top wants to play with my dick. My favorite position is to be on my back with my legs up on his shoulders. I love when he will stop fucking me, pull his dick out of my ass, bend over and take my dick in his mouth for a few minutes and then shove his dick back in my ass.

My old fuck buddy LOVED to play with my ass for hours. He would take turns sucking my dick, rimming my ass and fucking me. He was so talented and he was constantly switching between my dick and ass. Damn, I am hard just thinking about him.
 

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Thanks, HBILA. That seems to be the general consensus from guys who share your perspective. Is it just a matter that being touched is a distraction for you? It seems, based on what I've observed, that some guys actually pull away from being touched, which is what always surprises me.

I don’t pull away from being touched, but it is kind of distracting. The feeling of getting fucked is kind of all consuming - awesome and intense. And I really get into it, and the feeling of my hole stretching and opening up, feeling the power of the guy fucking me, how good his cock feels fucking me. It’s such an intense feeling that if he starts trying to work my dick it distracts from that pleasure. It doesn’t feel bad per se, but I love the feeling of getting fucked so much that it’s a bit of a buzzkill.
 

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I don’t pull away from being touched, but it is kind of distracting. The feeling of getting fucked is kind of all consuming - awesome and intense. And I really get into it, and the feeling of my hole stretching and opening up, feeling the power of the guy fucking me, how good his cock feels fucking me. It’s such an intense feeling that if he starts trying to work my dick it distracts from that pleasure. It doesn’t feel bad per se, but I love the feeling of getting fucked so much that it’s a bit of a buzzkill.
Thanks, HBILA. That was the clearest answer I've gotten so far. :)
 
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As a bottom, I have never had a problem if the top wants to play with my dick. My favorite position is to be on my back with my legs up on his shoulders. I love when he will stop fucking me, pull his dick out of my ass, bend over and take my dick in his mouth for a few minutes and then shove his dick back in my ass.

My old fuck buddy LOVED to play with my ass for hours. He would take turns sucking my dick, rimming my ass and fucking me. He was so talented and he was constantly switching between my dick and ass. Damn, I am hard just thinking about him.
Cedarizzo, that sounds more like it. That's the way I like to do it :)
 
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I'm not averse to being sucked, but only as foreplay. If were getting down to full fucking im much happier getting pleasure from nipple play, ass play and servicing my tops desires. I would much rather have a long session of being fucked when I don't cum until my top has shot his load. For me the pleasure is from being fucked and knowing im satisfying the top.
 

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I dont like being sucked that often because to be honest a lot of dudes CANT give decent blowjobs ..... They might be enthusiastic but some suck too hard to the point its just painful ....i like smooth wet lips , SLOW up and down the shaft ....i hate it when guys go too fast and rough

and yeah ive heard guys that think they are experts at blowjobs - but how do they know they are good at it when theyre not on the recieving end ?

beards and facial hair can be uncomfortable as well , feeling rough stubble against your dick is like rubbing yourself with a brillo pad - its fucking horrible .
 
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