Are you a bottom who doesn't like to be sucked or even that doesn't enjoy that the top jerk you off? Why?
I'm not trying to judge, just to understand.
I'm not trying to judge, just to understand.
I don't like getting sucked. I'm a bottom. Prefer to either save up and have good orgasms from anal penetration or have a top fuck me and me jerk off. Sometimes I don't cum at all but feel very satisfied from having gotten fucked.
Thanks, Nellon, for the perspective. It's not the first time I've heard it. It just escapes me a bit. It's a good thing we all like and respond to different things, otherwise sex wouldn't be half as fun.I don't like getting sucked. I'm a bottom. Prefer to either save up and have good orgasms from anal penetration or have a top fuck me and me jerk off. Sometimes I don't cum at all but feel very satisfied from having gotten fucked.
I have found that a few times alsoI fucked around a few times with a bottom that did not want to be sucked or jacked off. He would come in, suck my dick and get fucked. After I came, he would come. One time, out of habit, I reached around and started jacking him off. As soon as my hand closed around his dick, he started coming immediately. He then told me that was the reason he didn't like to be touched, it took just a touch to make him shoot. I didn't play with him again after that. At the time, I didn't mind playing with a bottom only. But I wanted some more interaction with them. I at least wanted to suck them too.
Thanks, HBILA. That seems to be the general consensus from guys who share your perspective. Is it just a matter that being touched is a distraction for you? It seems, based on what I've observed, that some guys actually pull away from being touched, which is what always surprises me.Not keen on getting sucked either. What gets me off is getting the guy I’m with off. Unless I have a orgasm while I’m getting fucked, I prefer to put all the focus on the guy, his cock, and making him cum. If I’m sucking a guy off I only even get naked if he tells me to (it also means he probably wants to fuck me). And if I’m getting fucked I prefer to focus on opening myself up to take his cock as slow and sensually or hard and deep as he wants.
Thanks, HBILA. That seems to be the general consensus from guys who share your perspective. Is it just a matter that being touched is a distraction for you? It seems, based on what I've observed, that some guys actually pull away from being touched, which is what always surprises me.
Thanks, HBILA. That was the clearest answer I've gotten so far.I don’t pull away from being touched, but it is kind of distracting. The feeling of getting fucked is kind of all consuming - awesome and intense. And I really get into it, and the feeling of my hole stretching and opening up, feeling the power of the guy fucking me, how good his cock feels fucking me. It’s such an intense feeling that if he starts trying to work my dick it distracts from that pleasure. It doesn’t feel bad per se, but I love the feeling of getting fucked so much that it’s a bit of a buzzkill.
Cedarizzo, that sounds more like it. That's the way I like to do itAs a bottom, I have never had a problem if the top wants to play with my dick. My favorite position is to be on my back with my legs up on his shoulders. I love when he will stop fucking me, pull his dick out of my ass, bend over and take my dick in his mouth for a few minutes and then shove his dick back in my ass.
My old fuck buddy LOVED to play with my ass for hours. He would take turns sucking my dick, rimming my ass and fucking me. He was so talented and he was constantly switching between my dick and ass. Damn, I am hard just thinking about him.