If you sleep with a guy on a first date (in your opinion)?
If you perform oral, unprompted, when you do have sex with a new guy for the first time?
The reason I ask is that some girls put out on a first date and some don't.
Some will also offer up a BJ and some won't.
Do you think it's fear of appearing a slut in an "He'll think if I do it to him, so easily, I must do it for all the guys just as easily" sort of thing?
Only once in my life have I been with a girl who flatly refused to perform a BJ - period. She'd been very sexually repressed by her mother, she told me.
Most girls I've had sex with are only too keen to get down and nasty with their oral skills, once it's been presented to them, but even that has it's problems........
If a BJ is not volunteered, is it best to just kneel over her after performing oral and silently present it to her face/lips (and risk rejection and cause embarrasment), or attempt to manouver into a 69 position? (I tried this with the girl mentioned above, prior to our discussing it and she kept edging away, as I kept edging it towards her. An overhead video of us would have looked like we were performing as a human Catherine Wheel on the bed :biggrin1
One girl would only give a BJ in 69 or with the back of her head towards me, as she stated she was embarrased for me to actually see it in her mouth. I stayed with her for over 2 years and she was more than happy for me to lick her ass as well as her pussy, but wouldn't help me titty-fuck her, though was happy if it was me wrapping her breasts around my cock - said she would feel cheap if it was her holding them, herself.
Genuinely interested in the lady's opinions.:smile:
If you perform oral, unprompted, when you do have sex with a new guy for the first time?
The reason I ask is that some girls put out on a first date and some don't.
Some will also offer up a BJ and some won't.
Do you think it's fear of appearing a slut in an "He'll think if I do it to him, so easily, I must do it for all the guys just as easily" sort of thing?
Only once in my life have I been with a girl who flatly refused to perform a BJ - period. She'd been very sexually repressed by her mother, she told me.
Most girls I've had sex with are only too keen to get down and nasty with their oral skills, once it's been presented to them, but even that has it's problems........
If a BJ is not volunteered, is it best to just kneel over her after performing oral and silently present it to her face/lips (and risk rejection and cause embarrasment), or attempt to manouver into a 69 position? (I tried this with the girl mentioned above, prior to our discussing it and she kept edging away, as I kept edging it towards her. An overhead video of us would have looked like we were performing as a human Catherine Wheel on the bed :biggrin1
One girl would only give a BJ in 69 or with the back of her head towards me, as she stated she was embarrased for me to actually see it in her mouth. I stayed with her for over 2 years and she was more than happy for me to lick her ass as well as her pussy, but wouldn't help me titty-fuck her, though was happy if it was me wrapping her breasts around my cock - said she would feel cheap if it was her holding them, herself.
Genuinely interested in the lady's opinions.:smile:
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