Did you and do you want a GF?
Are you a complete loser if ... you are 25+ years old, and you never had a girlfriend or even kiss a female in the mouth? :redface:
Are you a complete loser if ... you are 25+ years old, and you never had a girlfriend or even kiss a female in the mouth? :redface:
Yea its my case, no longer catholic at all, tnks for the kind wordsIf your referring to yourself then no. Cultural differences not withstanding, you're probably a very devote Catholic also. I wouldn't be ashamed of any lack of experience. That does not make a man. The caring and compassion you show in your posts lead me to believe you have a great capacity to love and when you meet the right person things will just click for you. She will be honored to be your first and you can enjoy learning together!
Yea, since i started liking girls i always wanted itDid you and do you want a GF?
I did had several chances, and i destroyed those chances big timemore about the choices you have made and which opportunities have (or haven't) yet presented themselves to you
Oddly enough it was not that, until recently i found out why it wasI think LOSER would be a harsh assessment in this regard. It could be b/c of ones childhood, religious upbringing or even a lack of social training including ineptitude
There are plenty of homosexuals and asexuals in that position.
If you aren't either of those... then perhaps, you should consider changing your approach to women.
I was kind like that cause i am in a semi "lock up" life, cause my brother needs constant supervision, so 6 days at week i cant leave my house, only when my dad returns every week, i can go out saturdays, ive been like this for like 5 years, but suddendly i just dnt want to stay alone, and thats where i changedI am 26. I've kissed 2 girls and that's it. If I was never kissed again, I don't think I would even care. Maybe I'm asexual? After a while, you just forget about it and move on to other things.
Nope there are not things like that here, what i had to do is to ask anyone i know help to meet girls, cause i have no way to meet women, right now i just realized that i have to do what once got me luck with women, wich was being quite fit and thin, so i went to se a nutricionist, and now im in a very strict diet (no xmas dinner for me, that strict), 15 sep was 209lb, 31 nov 198, today 187, when i get to 177, i will go to a gym for a heavier workout the early mornings (the only time i can go out, when my brother sleeps), when i get to 159 i will go to my dream goal, the rough pro boxers gym, then i can buy new clothes to go out with my cousins, and even dancing lessons, thats my plan, ohh the avatar was just a random thing, its the one i liked :biggrin1:Trust me I'm not being kind, just sincere. Have you any single adult groups there? Here, there's minglers through various organizations. It's a nice way to break the ice outside of a bar scene. Try getting a makeover. Take someone with you who you trust and like their sense of style. It's a huge confidence booster! Try something fun that you haven't...a new hairstyle, manicure, new jeans and a nice well fitting shirt...Positive attitude reflects in how you carry yourself and present to others. When I see your avatar I know how kind you are and enjoy your posts and opinions, but there's something a little sad about the way the dim light comes through the trees...I can't help but wonder how often you let yourself enjoy and just smile!
Well i already saw one for quite a time, helped me a lot with other stuff, i dnt feel like that, a few months ago maybe, but ive overcomed my own fears by now, i know that thinking like that its going to backfire, but im no longer there, i asked cause, some girls did not believe that ive never had a relationship, and tough i was lying, but i will have to deal with that, tnks for the response :smile:besides all these advices i think it would be a good idea for you to see a psychiatrist