Are you a dominant, submissive or both?

[Bryan_Lyte2]

I'm not a take charge person, so I guess that makes me submissive?

 

[pichulon]

Ooh is it a Scorpio thing? :tongue: I am both. Sometimes I just like to be fucked and others I want to be in control and telling him/her what to do and how to do it. It's a mood thing, but I'm definitely both.

I guess we are 3 , I like it when the girl has a dominant streak , because it allows for power struggle, which I like and enjoy.
With a submissive girl, there is not much variety, but when the girl wants to control, we struggle in a seductive way, we exchange power , she could start dominating, I will comply, only reluctantly ... only to come back, and she will give up, also reluctantly, and, there we go......
....incredibly enticing to jockey for position......
nothing more desirious , passionate, erotic, than power struggling for control.
With out taking a definite stance, it becomes a never ending lustfull dance for control.......

 

[D_Claude Hopper]

nothing more desirious , passionate, erotic, than power struggling for control.
With out taking a definite stance, it becomes a never ending lustfull dance for control.......

BINGO! My sentiments exectly. I think all of the dynamics of this kind of sexual relationships wil never never ever get dull. It just changes so fast.

 

[naughty]

BINGO! My sentiments exectly. I think all of the dynamics of this kind of sexual relationships wil never never ever get dull. It just changes so fast.

Well, gentlemen...

I suppose Blondie69 and I are in luck. For I know I could be no other way. Life is a struggle and then you die (Hopefully, a thousand little deaths as the french are known to say....)

 

[ClaireTalon]

Ooh is it a Scorpio thing? :tongue: I am both. Sometimes I just like to be fucked and others I want to be in control and telling him/her what to do and how to do it. It's a mood thing, but I'm definitely both.

I guess that's a healthy thing. Might be good to let the reigns slip from time to time and just enjoy being fucked inside out until your bells ring. Unfortunately it's nothing for me, I usually have significantly better orgasms if I at least feel like I have the mental control of it all, not necessarily being on top physically, but knowing the man is "at my command".

 

[pichulon]

Well, gentlemen...

I suppose Blondie69 and I are in luck. For I know I could be no other way. Life is a struggle and then you die (Hopefully, a thousand little deaths as the french are known to say....)

exactly, and I was sure I was not the only one!
it is so enticing to dominate the scene, to be dominated, the struggle....the transition from one condition to the other, and everything in between , it's delicious.......its about life and enjoying it....licentiousness.....women are so tempting, seductive, .....there is so many ways to savor a female , and, mutually , relish on one another's company.....

 

[Gisella]

I think iam dominant with submissive men and submissive with dominant men..and like to play rools too..than will be like a camaleon because i do get bored very easily too...

 

[RnR]

Submissive ALL the way...I love my man to grab me, pick me up, throw me down on the bed and have his way with me. I don't think I can orgasm any other way!

Renee

 

[catb1977]

Right you get your knickers off and get on the bed legs spread in the air do what your told ok lol

 

[Doc]

Submissive ALL the way...I love my man to grab me, pick me up, throw me down on the bed and have his way with me. I don't think I can orgasm any other way!

Renee

You know if you had asked me a year ago what I thought of that statement, I probably wouldn't have blinked or cared, now it just makes me want to grab you by your wrists fling you in a room and lock the door, with me in there.

Something strange about a switch, is that you can really get into a polar demeanor if the opposing partner is clearly on one side. One day I could be a dom and the next a sub.