Are You A High Value Man? Gay Dating/marriage.

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For the past few days, I’ve been watching Kevin Samuel’s videos on youtube hoping to get ma-self a high value man.

I know I’m fine and low and average value man ain’t getting diz.

I may be over 250 pounds but I’m petite (5’4), I know I’m a 10. My cookie may have a gift but I deserve the best and most expensive. Like the old saying, bones and tough muscles are for dogs. Meats are for king. If you can’t handle me at my worse, you ain’t fit for me.

Oh, i’m pushing 40s but that don’t count, age is just a numba! Those young hoes have stretched out and dirty cooche. My cookie is tight and clean just for you high value men out there. It’s rarely been touched because it’s ma-choice!. The gift may flare up every now and then, but I take med for that.

So, what do you guys think of high value men in the gay dating/marriage world? Does that terminology carry the same weight in our gay world?

A while ago, a med student (soon to be high value man) posting about his struggle in finding other gay guys to date. And a few posters voiced their opinion that they avoid dating smart + wealthy guys in medical and high up management professions. Which I was very surprised!
 
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This thread made my chuckle a lot ahaha
It’s written in a funny way. Hope you find what you are looking for ^^

I can second your « difficult to find a man when you are kinda high value ». I’ve met guys who felt « endangered » by my intelligence because I have a PhD degree
 
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i had never heard of this guy so had to check out a couple of his vids - interesting speaker. With regard to 'high value men' though I think he's got this seriously wrong.

For me a HVM is simply a guy who knows who he is, has that 'inner confidence' and knows how to treat other people. Under KS' view i've dated HVM and quite honestly they were dicks in a bad way.

I don't aspire to find such a guy who's worth is based on how much he earns or how others perceive him, i look for a guy who's kind, generous natured, honest and just decent and for a partner, he has to be sexy (in my eyes at least) and it has to be mutual both ways.

If you have the concept of a HVM then you're putting yourself down if that what you seek/are searching for? You're trying to raise your own 'value' by catching a HVM?

For dating and marriage/ltr the things that are important aren't what KS refers to.

And as for 'deserving' anything - none of us deserve anything more than we ourselves put out there??

So not sure what the OP is looking for in terms of a response, but this is my take on this:)
 

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So basically it sounds like you are a gold digger.. I don’t know you but the way you described yourself, you may not be perceived as high valued. Everyone has their own definition of what high valued is…Multiple degrees and income doesn’t equate to good sex or one finding you desirable.. It shows that if they play their cards right, you will just get played..
 

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For the past few days, I’ve been watching Kevin Samuel’s videos on youtube hoping to get ma-self a high value man.

I know I’m fine and low and average value man ain’t getting diz.

I may be over 250 pounds but I’m petite (5’4), I know I’m a 10. My cookie may have a gift but I deserve the best and most expensive. Like the old saying, bones and tough muscles are for dogs. Meats are for king. If you can’t handle me at my worse, you ain’t fit for me.

Oh, i’m pushing 40s but that don’t count, age is just a numba! Those young hoes have stretched out and dirty cooche. My cookie is tight and clean just for you high value men out there. It’s rarely been touched because it’s ma-choice!. The gift may flare up every now and then, but I take med for that.

So, what do you guys think of high value men in the gay dating/marriage world? Does that terminology carry the same weight in our gay world?

A while ago, a med student (soon to be high value man) posting about his struggle in finding other gay guys to date. And a few posters voiced their opinion that they avoid dating smart + wealthy guys in medical and high up management professions. Which I was very surprised!
Be VERY careful and super picky. I have a gay friend that is over 50, well educated with multiple degrees, a self made man that owns his own home and car he worked hard for, is successful with a career, saves money, works hard, etc. He said how he can easily tell if someone wants him as a sugar daddy or like basically wants to be kept by him, and he has no desire for any of this and tells them sorry I am not interested in dating you.
 

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On the other side of things, I have another gay friend that was with a sugar daddy and of course when things ended, he wound up with nothing, but this guy keeps looking for guys who will take care of him or like basically keep him or be his sugar daddy, and he has always been like this it was not some 20s pipe dream fantasy or whatever. But actually being single has hopefully shown him he does not need a sugar daddy, can be successful on his own, can date or find partners who want an equal relationship, etc.
 
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