Are You A Secret Bisexual Man? Or Open For Others And Your Family To Be Aware Of That?

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I am not secret, but I am private. I am out to my family and close friends, a few other random people in my life. But mainly if you don’t ask, I usually don’t tell unless it’s relevant to a conversation.

If asked by people I know, yeah I’ll openly say my sexuality. If asked by a stranger, I will ask them how it’s any of their business. Like I said, I’m a private person, been judged a ton in my life by people who don’t know me and have shown they have no right getting to know me. So I’m reserved because of it, but it in no way means I’m not a proud bisexual.
 

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I am not secret, but I am private. I am out to my family and close friends, a few other random people in my life. But mainly if you don’t ask, I usually don’t tell unless it’s relevant to a conversation.

If asked by people I know, yeah I’ll openly say my sexuality. If asked by a stranger, I will ask them how it’s any of their business. Like I said, I’m a private person, been judged a ton in my life by people who don’t know me and have shown they have no right getting to know me. So I’m reserved because of it, but it in no way means I’m not a proud bisexual.
I do sorry if my question may offend you. I just want to know the difference perspective from people from various countries and cultures since there is a peer pressure in my country to fit in and I don't expect that it's also related to individuals privacy.
 
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I do sorry if my question may offend you. I just want to know the difference perspective from people from various countries and cultures since there is a peer pressure in my country to fit in and I don't expect that it's also related to individuals privacy.
I’m not sure what your question is asking.
 
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Are you a secret bisexual man or everyone know that you're a bisexual? If you're a secret one, why you have to do so? Would love to hear your experience!
I would join one of the married/bi type groups we have here and post this question. Reason being, many here are married. They are struggling as it is. Being married/bi and not out to your spouse is not a proud thing to offer out to the interweb. It's easier for folks that have the same issue to discuss.
 
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Are you a secret bisexual man or everyone know that you're a bisexual? If you're a secret one, why you have to do so? Would love to hear your experience!

No one knows about my 'gay secret'. I started early and didn't want anyone to know what was happening
 
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It depends really. I'm engaged to a man, so I guess most people assume I'm gay. I don't actively correct them, but I also don't self-censor and refuse to talk about relationships with/attraction to women so they might eventually figure it out? Then again, straight people, amiright? ;)
 
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. Am sure rumours have floated around the community - why isn't he married or living with someone . No one has asked if I am gay , straight or bi . If and when I am asked will answer the question . Most people really don't care
 
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I’m straight but then I fantasise about bi relationships or encounters. I love looking at good cocks on here and I love my cock being admire by men on here. Does that make me bi? I used to have listed that was 80/20 straight/bi on here and then admin warned me I wasn’t authorised, for that reason, to contribute in the straight Male thread. So maybe I am bi based on the admins of this forum?
 
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I would call it more of a fetish right now for me, but until I have a chance to be with another man then I will just use it for masturbation fantasies.
So do you fantasies become reality’s? You’re in Missouri showme
 
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