*Sigh*...grower here, too. Only about 5.5-6 when soft, maybe 5 inches around. This makes for a practically nonexistent bulge in the pants most of the time.
There is no way you can call yourself a "grower" if your flaccid cock is 5.5-6" as you state. Dammit man, 5.5-6" is the world average erect cock size. You want to see a grower, look at my pics.
http://www.lpsg.org/members/brillig...+pictures/492163-bigballs-dormant-grower.html
http://www.lpsg.org/members/brillig...es/494500-mushroom-growing-not-quite-the.html
My cock disappears when flaccid, almost totally, like down to 1". And you complain about not having a bulge? If it wasn't for the fact my balls are disproportionately huge, I'd have no bulge at all.
You have nothing to complain about, so no need to sigh. How I envy your 9" long, 5" around status. Be grateful,Cosmognosis. count your blessings etc etc....LOL