Are You Able To Cum Handsfree? Is There A Way To Learn It?

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For all the bottoms and vers out there: are you able to stay hard while getting f'ed or even able to cum hands-free? is there a technique/way to learn it?

I love bottoming, however, I need to constantly strock my dick in order to stay hard. If I don't, I go soft within minutes even if I'm enjoying myself. As far as cumming handsfree, I have never experienced that. Maybe it's just the way my hole/prostate is designed.

However, I do wonder: is there a way or technique to help me stay hard (I don't mean drugs or viagra) or even cum handsfree?
 
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Maybe try a buttplug that is designed to stimulate your prostate, while using a cockring?

Sometimes when I bottom I'll lay with my stomach on the bed. That allows me to rub my erection handsfree on the mattress, which can make me cum.

I think at the end of the day, it is more about focusing on the feeling of the moment and enjoying it. Sometimes that will take you to orgasm, sometimes it won't. If you always focus on having to orgasm, it makes it a chore, and takes away from the pleasure. If you just let it happen, and pay attention to what you are feeling, you'll become more attuned to what your body likes, and how to elevate that experience more readily.
 

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I think as bottoms we tend to take responsibility for everything. It's like sex is our own personal Broadway production and tops are like our audience who we seek to entertain for their applause.

Instead of having to do everything, on occasion your top can jerk you off to orgasm at the same time? If you have to go to the trouble of cleaning out your play pen that's the least they could do! Haha!
 

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For all the bottoms and vers out there: are you able to stay hard while getting f'ed or even able to cum hands-free? is there a technique/way to learn it?

I love bottoming, however, I need to constantly strock my dick in order to stay hard. If I don't, I go soft within minutes even if I'm enjoying myself. As far as cumming handsfree, I have never experienced that. Maybe it's just the way my hole/prostate is designed.

However, I do wonder: is there a way or technique to help me stay hard (I don't mean drugs or viagra) or even cum handsfree?

I have a friend who says he can do it (I wouldn’t know as I’ve never had sex with him or watched him), but my husband wants to do it too so I asked if he had any tips.

What he told me was that he essentially trained himself to do it. He got himself used to the feeling of cumming while riding a dildo. After a while, he would get himself close while riding and then stop touching his cock when he’s about to cum. After he got used to that, he ended up being able to ride in a way that lets him stimulate his prostate to orgasm

Now like I said, I don’t know whether this actually works since I’ve never seen it and I have no desire to bottom myself, but you’re welcome to try and report your findings! :D