Welcome!
I'm fairly new here, too, and I've been really surprised and pleased by the interaction between straight and gay. It's all about having a big schlong (or wanting one or wanting to have one), so I would say to you, just be open minded. There is really a lot to learn from each other.
My observation so far has been, straight guys don't mind if anyone else wants to see their cocks. They just don't care, and they are proud of what they have...as I hope you are.
Anyway, just glad you are here, and take some time to be appreciated.
DP