It is mostly about ME being naked with others who are also. I don't feel pulled to watch them. I want to BE WITH them. I truly admire their bodies but the feeling I have is best described as, if this makes sense, "we are naked together and that is very right.". I don't by way of example think -- as I stand two feet away from a hot guy soaping his admirable package or ass that I would like to have sex with that guy. I feel fulfilled to be naked in his naked presence. It feels overwhelmingly affirming.
Are you also ashamed of some of your fetishes?
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Once I was at my friends house, finishing a project or something, and since I was in my early 20s I wanted to quickly check his history when he went to use the bathroom.
Boy did I regret that action, he is into some really hardcore shit, humiliation, even pain, blood and all. Never looked at him the same way since.
For me, my biggest turnon is amateur stuff, not knowing what one's doing, and voyeurism and exhib. A psychiatrist would have a lot to say about that too, but I think it's still on the mellow side, as far as fetishes go...
Boy did I regret that action, he is into some really hardcore shit, humiliation, even pain, blood and all. Never looked at him the same way since.
For me, my biggest turnon is amateur stuff, not knowing what one's doing, and voyeurism and exhib. A psychiatrist would have a lot to say about that too, but I think it's still on the mellow side, as far as fetishes go...
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I think this would be a topic worth exploring in a separate thread. I really hate it when guys that don't understand chalk this up to "just wanting to see dick" when there is so much more to it than that. What do you guys think?
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I can completely relate to this. Communal showers with other guys is a really good way to wind down after a work out. It's liberating, open and honest. We spend too much time worrying and being cautious, but in a communal shower you are revealing everything and there is mutual trust with all the other guys.
Showering is always seen as a private individual activity. But it's something everyone does every day. There's something about doing this daily task in the presence and openness of others that feels good.
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nah, I'm probably just very "vanilla", I guess.
Used to be very shy about facials (giving or receiving) and would never suggest it and always say no when a guy suggested it, meanwhile truth is I used to jack off to facial porn all the time... How stupid was I....
Now I just don't care. I'm a lot more open and open-minded sexually.
I've gone from meek and shy to having an artillery of sex toys, cock rings, chest harnesses and have had 90% of the guys I've been with since blow their loads all over my face.
Just have to be comfortable with yourself, I guess ... .?
Used to be very shy about facials (giving or receiving) and would never suggest it and always say no when a guy suggested it, meanwhile truth is I used to jack off to facial porn all the time... How stupid was I....
Now I just don't care. I'm a lot more open and open-minded sexually.
I've gone from meek and shy to having an artillery of sex toys, cock rings, chest harnesses and have had 90% of the guys I've been with since blow their loads all over my face.
Just have to be comfortable with yourself, I guess ... .?
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Yes on occasions.
I sometimes find myself turned on by unusual stuff, and I think it's my supposition that the person is really getting off on what they're doing rather than the act itself.
I have in the past had a fantasy of meeting a guy without teeth who can deep throat me down to my balls.
I have met a couple of guys who had full sets of dentures and removed them to suck my dick, but neither of them could deep throat unfortunately.
The thought of someone having all their teeth removed to give this very special treat is one I definitely feel a little ashamed of having..... there; I've admitted one.
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A toothless deepthroat would be fucking awesome.Yes on occasions.
I sometimes find myself turned on by unusual stuff, and I think it's my supposition that the person is really getting off on what they're doing rather than the act itself.
I have in the past had a fantasy of meeting a guy without teeth who can deep throat me down to my balls.
I have met a couple of guys who had full sets of dentures and removed them to suck my dick, but neither of them could deep throat unfortunately.
The thought of someone having all their teeth removed to give this very special treat is one I definitely feel a little ashamed of having..... there; I've admitted one.
Joe
About the only thing that makes me hesitant to share is the fact that some people might over react or read too much into it. I am of the mind that somethings are just sexy to you. It doesn't mean anything. Just because some one is into watching male dominant porn doesn't mean they are dominant. Watching male submissive stuff doesn't make you submissive. You just like a thing.
I treat sex like most any other stuff. Liking country doesn't make your from the country. Like rap doesn't mean you are hard core. You just like a thing.
I treat sex like most any other stuff. Liking country doesn't make your from the country. Like rap doesn't mean you are hard core. You just like a thing.
That might be because a fetish, by strict definition, is something that the fetishist must have for sexual stimulation or release. So people are technically correct to make this assumption. There should be a more specific term for having various alternate "kinks" they enjoy indulging as an addition to but not replacement for, conventional sex acts.
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Ok I see what you are saying and you are right. It wasn't a diss to people that have a particular fetish and that are really into it. Just personally I never like to limit myself to one thing, especially in the bedroom.
All good, I didn't perceive it as a dis', just wanted to offer a possible explanation for some folks' reaction when told.
I absolutely love my wife's feet. But with very rare exceptions only hers. I do look, and some others are attractive, but none do it for me like hers. From time to time she might casually mention that "he has a fetish for my feet.." and the reactions are rarely positive, so I've asked her not to divulge it. Just not worth trying to explain to people who won't get it anyway....
I like watching guys pee. I dont like getting peed on or watching guys pee on other people or pissing themselves but simply taking a piss like in the bathroom or in public somewhere. I often time sneak peeks.
I am just the same, NOT into water sports at all, but just love watching a guy take a piss. In office on my own this morning and as i have nice big screen been watching some videos on spy cams in toilets, quite got me horny.
Last night followed really sexy barman into the toilet, he has beautiful peachy arse and very nice bulge in the front, when i got to the urinal his buttons were undone and lovely big fat cock peeing like a horse, i managed a pretty good look and let him see that i was looking. Got impression he was happy to let me see if but nothing else - and he then said he's off to Australia next week for six months
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